Claire 1 Posted February 25, 2016 Posted February 25, 2016 I have had a couple of threads on here about tests before sex. Now and finally we both had tests and are clear. We agreed Friday night that is tomorrow for sex. Last night we went to a night club, we lost each other then after some time I found out he had left, with a girl pulling him out. A very nice guy had talked to me early and asked me to go to his place. I found him, we went to his place for about 4 hours and had passionate sex despite not knowing him well. I felt great, he knew I hadn't had sex, he was I felt all that I had expected. I got back to my boy friends place-I live with him. He wasn't there. He was there in the morning. We talked I couldn't get the courage to tell him I had sex, will he be able to tell I had sex. He told me he was seduced which I believe from what I heard in night club I also believe he didn't have sex with the girl he wanted to stay clean for me. I also believe he loves me.
Buddhist Posted February 25, 2016 Posted February 25, 2016 Honey, please stop. Your boyfriend has a will of his own, if he left with another girl it was his choice to do that. You also chose to leave with someone else and shag him instead. I think both of you need to realise that you just aren't into each other. If you were, neither of you would be leaving a club with someone else. :roll eyes: If that nice guy follows up with you, maybe you should start dating him instead. 7
Michelle ma Belle Posted February 25, 2016 Posted February 25, 2016 I'm sorry but this story is ridiculous on so many levels. He "knew you hadn't had sex"? Yet you live with your boyfriend?? Do the two of you not have sex then?!? Why are you even together? 4
Space Ritual Posted February 25, 2016 Posted February 25, 2016 I have had a couple of threads on here about tests before sex. Now and finally we both had tests and are clear. We agreed Friday night that is tomorrow for sex. Last night we went to a night club, we lost each other then after some time I found out he had left, with a girl pulling him out. A very nice guy had talked to me early and asked me to go to his place. I found him, we went to his place for about 4 hours and had passionate sex despite not knowing him well. I felt great, he knew I hadn't had sex, he was I felt all that I had expected. I got back to my boy friends place-I live with him. He wasn't there. He was there in the morning. We talked I couldn't get the courage to tell him I had sex, will he be able to tell I had sex. He told me he was seduced which I believe from what I heard in night club I also believe he didn't have sex with the girl he wanted to stay clean for me. I also believe he loves me. Are you working towards a punchline here? perhaps "Lice?! I thought you said Rice!" 1
RecentChange Posted February 25, 2016 Posted February 25, 2016 Wait WHAT!? You wouldnt have sex with your BF without a test, but had no issue banging a stranger you met at a club (who probably does this all the time). Did he use a condom? Were you a virgin before this one night stand? 5
Author Claire 1 Posted February 25, 2016 Author Posted February 25, 2016 No I haven't had sex with my boyfriend although I live with him. Yes I was a virgin yes he used a condom. I never thought about catching anything from guy I was just annoyed that my so called boyfriend had gone I felt I wanted to get at him!
Phoenician Posted February 25, 2016 Posted February 25, 2016 (edited) a boy asked his father dad what is theory and what is reality , the father replied , go to your mom and ask her if she woul accept to sleep with a guy for 10k and come back back to me . the boy came back and said , dad she said yes... the father told him go ask ur sis . the boy came back and said to his father yes dad , she said yes the father replied : in theory we have 20k in our pocket , in reality we have 2 wh0res at home ... so in theory you were bth waiting for big event in reality you are both not for each other Edited February 25, 2016 by Phoenician 2
Robratory Posted February 25, 2016 Posted February 25, 2016 Just sayin', but there's a difference between a one-night stand and one night-stand. 4
clia Posted February 25, 2016 Posted February 25, 2016 Well, since you insisted that your boyfriend of seven months who you live with get tested or you wouldn't have sex with him, YOU are now under an obligation to get a test to make sure you didn't get an STD from your one night stand. The right thing to do is to tell your boyfriend you cheated on him. But get ready to find a new place to live. Why on Earth would you choose to lose your virginity to a random guy you met at a club rather than your boyfriend after waiting so long? 4
Methodical Posted February 26, 2016 Posted February 26, 2016 Some random nice guy talked to you earlier in the evening. Your bf left with another girl so you sought this random guy out. You, being a virgin, had sex for four hours your first time? It was great and you weren't sore? 1
frus69 Posted February 26, 2016 Posted February 26, 2016 Boyfriend and girlfriend both left the club and had sex with someone else? And both returned back home like nothing's happened? This is fresh. 3
Toodaloo Posted February 26, 2016 Posted February 26, 2016 This has to be a troll. If not then wow. To be fair she is from Manchester so anything is possible. I just can't think of what to say... its just... OP I suggest you talk to your mum about this... 1
EatYourVeggies Posted February 26, 2016 Posted February 26, 2016 (edited) Wtf!?! People never cease to amaze me. There is literally absolutely no bounds to what some people will tolerate / do in order to not be alone. I have come to really like and appreciate my problems. I wouldn't trade them with anyone else. Is breaking up with someone and being alone (for a time) worse than living with a guy who cheats on you in your face and then to get back at him take some loser home from a club and banging him all night? Jesus... Edited February 26, 2016 by EatYourVeggies
smudge21 Posted February 26, 2016 Posted February 26, 2016 Ah the joys of a great British education system. I recall mine spent more time focusing on how a bee and a flower get it on rather than the emotional mine field that is sex and how it can destroy lives in the blink of an eye. Lucky we live in such a country that sees sex as something dirty that should never be discussed openly and instead should only be worked out between two virgins during a drunken night out in Manchester. In all seriousness, if this is for real, then both these two need to be honest with each other now and then either walk away or get it on and then walk away. The relationship is only as strong as one night out and two total strangers. That doesn't bode well. 1
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