Jabron1 Posted February 27, 2016 Posted February 27, 2016 I think that's the key. If you become the kind of negative guy that complains every day when he gets home, she is going to start dreading your appearance because you will bring her down. If it's an occasional problem then it might be good, she might even like that you open up to her. Personally, for the more generally moany stuff I might have I prefer a pint with my mates. My mum wouldn't want to hear about it! My mum's a sweetheart, bless her I think the problem is that guys expect their girlfriend to love them unconditionally, like their mother does, and they get lazy when in a LTR - I know I've been guilty of this. This is the disneyland sort of love that is simply not the reality of how things work in real life. If you come home complaining all the time, it will change the dynamics of your relationship. If you go through a period of not wanting sex, when you were a jackhammer before, it will change the dynamics of your relationship. If you lost your shape and put on 5 stone in weight, it will change the dynamics of your relationship.
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