daisyandroses Posted February 24, 2016 Share Posted February 24, 2016 My FWB 'broke up' two weeks ago, he unfriended me on snapchat and PROBABLY blocked my number idk. Thought I was over him, but I saw his friend at school and I cried....needless to say I got emotionally attached. Could I just hit im with an add on facebook / snapchat? I really wanna text him, but because he just said we're done for good I don't see a reason. I guess now that the breakup set in I don't know what to think. It's been awhile since I had a relationship of any kind, and he'd be the first who I DIDN'T keep in contact with via facebook or anything. I also kinda wanna message him asking for one last go, but the fact he said he didn't want to continue/we're done with the FWB thing wouldn't really pan out in my favor. I guess its a mixture of "I miss you" "I want to talk to you" "I want closure" and "one last go" now. Would this come off as desperate at all? I don't know if I should even bother but **** my heart hurts like hell right now. I just want to talk to him, is there anyway I can kinda 'guarantee' some sort of response? What do you think? Would I come off as a "crazy-cling ex girlfriend" type deal? Idk I doubt I'll even get a reply, considering I drunk texted him last Friday with nothing (not "why dont you love me" things, it was a stupid text "what if jessues was a pimop and sold cociane" word from word I believe lmao) I was thinking something along the lines of "Hey just thought I'd let you know that I'd still like to be friends or something. You seem like you'd be a cool friend, I'll understand if you think otherwise." but he has a record of not replying to questions about our 'relationship' so like i'd feel the need to add "what do you think?" to the end, but knowing him he'd still write it off. Link to post Share on other sites
Dis Posted February 24, 2016 Share Posted February 24, 2016 As we get older we learn that we are worth more than we think. DO NOT TXT HIM! You deserve to be with someone who WANTS to be with YOU! Please believe that! I just posted that I was just dumped last night and refuse to txt my ex although he has been txing me, why? because I should invest my energy into someone who deserves me. If he does not want you then hold your head high and walk away. I know it hurts..trust me...I know. He wont matter in a few months or years. Focus on what does matter...YOU! Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted February 24, 2016 Share Posted February 24, 2016 That'd be a truly dreadful idea. Don't be that girl who begs to spend time with a guy who's just interested in sex. It's a horrible look. Link to post Share on other sites
ilovemefirst Posted February 24, 2016 Share Posted February 24, 2016 Do not message/send friend request/ call. He has made it clear he wants no contact with you. It will hurt for a while, but you will be ok. Why do you want to talk to someone that does not want to talk to you. He will be back , they always do. Go out and meet someone else and you will meet someone else who deserves you! Link to post Share on other sites
Author daisyandroses Posted February 24, 2016 Author Share Posted February 24, 2016 That'd be a truly dreadful idea. Don't be that girl who begs to spend time with a guy who's just interested in sex. It's a horrible look. What if I'm just interested in sex as well? Idk, I know "if you just wanted sex you wouldn't care" but I guess its the way he left me that left me shaken up, how it was out of nowhere. Maybe im searching for small bits of closure. I just kinda idk, I don't think he wanted to end things, there were deeper issues he wouldn't talk about. Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted February 24, 2016 Share Posted February 24, 2016 What if I'm just interested in sex as well? Idk, I know "if you just wanted sex you wouldn't care" but I guess its the way he left me that left me shaken up, how it was out of nowhere. Maybe im searching for small bits of closure. I just kinda idk, I don't think he wanted to end things, there were deeper issues he wouldn't talk about. You aren't just interested in that, so that's irrelevant. And if he didn't want to end it he wouldn't have ended it. You're being a bit delusional here. Link to post Share on other sites
Author daisyandroses Posted February 24, 2016 Author Share Posted February 24, 2016 You aren't just interested in that, so that's irrelevant. And if he didn't want to end it he wouldn't have ended it. You're being a bit delusional here. He would get jealous over little things, then said out of nowhere "its getting too complicated" so I just really wanna keep contact with him Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted February 24, 2016 Share Posted February 24, 2016 He would get jealous over little things, then said out of nowhere "its getting too complicated" so I just really wanna keep contact with him Well that'd be dumb for both of you. He doesn't want it, and you are looking for any reason to hang on. Link to post Share on other sites
CarrieT Posted February 24, 2016 Share Posted February 24, 2016 I just really wanna keep contact with him Because you are hoping he will ultimately develop feelings for you. He won't so don't try to keep in contact.... Link to post Share on other sites
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