kendahke Posted February 21, 2016 Posted February 21, 2016 I was actually looking for fun What is your definition of "looking for fun"? "Looking for fun" is another way of saying "no-strings attached sex". 1
LoveIsMyReligion Posted February 21, 2016 Posted February 21, 2016 When I ask a girl to come over on the first date it's usually because I only want to sleep with her and have no other interest. If he brought up sex before your first date this guy has no interest in dating you and only wants to get laid. FACT
kidm Posted February 21, 2016 Posted February 21, 2016 That fact that he's extreme good looking and successful doesn't mean women would like to meet and have sex with him, which it sounds like is what he is looking for. His options may be limited at the moment because he's run through all the online willing participants. Good that you are treading cautiously as his initial "home-based" date invitations makes it seem like he is not looking for long-term committed relationship. Maybe he has realized he can't get into your panties as easily as he had thought and now he is changing his tactics a little bit.
Author brokengirl85 Posted February 21, 2016 Author Posted February 21, 2016 That fact that he's extreme good looking and successful doesn't mean women would like to meet and have sex with him, which it sounds like is what he is looking for. His options may be limited at the moment because he's run through all the online willing participants. Good that you are treading cautiously as his initial "home-based" date invitations makes it seem like he is not looking for long-term committed relationship. Maybe he has realized he can't get into your panties as easily as he had thought and now he is changing his tactics a little bit. Thank you for your thoughtful response. Yes, he's probably changing his tactics. Let's see how all this unravels if we meet indeed next week. I'm really cautious for now.
Author brokengirl85 Posted February 23, 2016 Author Posted February 23, 2016 Hi there, He told me he'll see me this Saturday. We are going to the movies. He said he'll text later on the week with more details. I had zero expectations to that point. However, he texted me last night wishing me a goodnight. I replied and he replied back but there wasn't much to follow up without me starting to show involvement. And given the fact he still doesn't set the time and place for our date, I considered it was not worth to continue chit chatting Im getting nervous and I shouldn't be. I don't know how to do to stop thinking about this guy. I don't know what he wants from me but I have the impression he likes me and he'd like to get to know me. And that makes me happy. One downside is the fact he's online at a dating site all the time. And the fact I contacted first saying I was just looking for fun :/
Author brokengirl85 Posted February 24, 2016 Author Posted February 24, 2016 What is the point of merging my previous discussion that is already 7 pages long? And you've changed the tittle as well. This way people won't respond to my thread. this makes me sad, honestly.
Gaeta Posted February 24, 2016 Posted February 24, 2016 I don't know what he wants from me but I have the impression he likes me and he'd like to get to know me. And that makes me happy. One downside is the fact he's online at a dating site all the time. And the fact I contacted first saying I was just looking for fun :/ He's looking for sex. He thinks if he plays his game right he'll get sex...because when you contacted him you said you were looking for fun. Your objective has changed, not his. He still thinks you want fun but you'll just require a little more work. In his mind it's worth it to invest a little more time with you to get sex than to start from square 1 with a different woman.
Author brokengirl85 Posted February 24, 2016 Author Posted February 24, 2016 He's looking for sex. He thinks if he plays his game right he'll get sex...because when you contacted him you said you were looking for fun. Your objective has changed, not his. He still thinks you want fun but you'll just require a little more work. In his mind it's worth it to invest a little more time with you to get sex than to start from square 1 with a different woman. Hi gaeta! Thank you for your input! Yes, I agree with you. However, this guy doesn't need to invest so much in someone like me if it's just sex what's he's after. He has enough money to pay for sex, and to be a sugar daddy as well. I can assure you I'm a normal gal. I might have a moderate rate of success online dating, but I'm not what you'd call a bombshell or a voluptuous woman. Anyway, he just confirmed our Saturday night date. Let's she how it unravels...
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