BeFierce Posted February 23, 2016 Posted February 23, 2016 Here's a story for all of you who have broken up. lol This woman donates her kidney to her husband, who then cheats on her and dumps her. And some of you think you guys have it rough. Wow....just wow ----------------------------------------------------------------------------- A wife who saved her dying husband’s life by giving him one of her kidneys wants it back after he walked out on her. Andy Lamb was suffering from renal failure and was only being kept alive by dialysis sessions, until his wife Samantha persuaded him to take one of her kidneys. Mrs Lamb, 41, lost more than 3st in weight to make sure that she would be healthy enough for the transplant operation in October 2009. The couple were even filmed for a BBC show which documented the story of her gift of love. But they did not live happily ever after. Just a few years after the life-saving procedure, their marriage was over when Mr Lamb walked out on his wife in August 2012. Mrs Lamb is adamant that her husband started having an affair with her friend – a claim he categorically denies. He moved his belongings out of their marital home one evening while she was working a night shift at Tesco. He also took the TV and stereo before posting the keys through the letterbox without a note or letter, she claims. The couple, from Ivybridge, Devon, met when they were both drivers for a private ambulance firm and started dating in 2004. After a brief split, when they had to live apart from each other for a short period of time, they decided to get married in 2007. However, Mr Lamb’s condition meant he soon became dependent on gruelling dialysis sessions. His wife explained: ‘He needed a new kidney or he would die. He was on dialysis three times a week. I told Andy he should go through with it [the transplant]. ‘He had children from an earlier relationship and he wanted to be there for them.’ Mrs Lamb says she now regrets donating the kidney to her husband and wishes she could have it back – if only to donate it to someone more deserving. She told the Sunday People: ‘I would definitely go through the operation again but I wouldn’t give the kidney to him. I hate him. If I could, then I would take it back and give it to someone else. ‘Obviously I don’t want people to be put off putting their names on the organ donor list. ‘But all I want from him is his name on the divorce papers.’ Read more: I gave my husband a kidney, then he dumped me... now I wish I could take it back | Daily Mail Online
Author BeFierce Posted February 23, 2016 Author Posted February 23, 2016 A similar story in 2009, but this time a man donate his kidney and his wife cheats. moral of story DO NOT DONATE UR KIDNEYS LOL GARDEN CITY, N.Y. — A Long Island surgeon embroiled in a nearly four-year divorce proceeding wants his estranged wife to return the kidney he donated to her, although he says he'll settle for $1.5 million in compensation. Dr. Richard Batista, a surgeon at Nassau University Medical Center, told reporters at his lawyer's Long Island office Wednesday that he decided to go public with his demand for kidney compensation because he has grown frustrated with the negotiations with his estranged wife. Divorcing Man Wants Kidney Back After Wife Cheats 1
Toodaloo Posted February 23, 2016 Posted February 23, 2016 (edited) Who cares if he is deserving or not. She saved his life and for that she should be proud even if he is a [cheater] Kindness should not be reserved for those who we regard as deserving of it. It should be for those who need it. Personally I think what really happened is that she made a rash decision, didn't think it through and when push comes to shove she didn't want to give up her kidney hence the hoo ha... I think she resents that she gave it to him and I don't think she cares all that much about him or his children either then or now. Edited February 23, 2016 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Language 4
PegNosePete Posted February 23, 2016 Posted February 23, 2016 I can imagine this being on Judge Judy. Do you have a signed contract stating that the kidney will be returned if he cheats or the marriage breaks down? No? Then it was a gift, not a loan. Case dismissed. 12
Author BeFierce Posted February 23, 2016 Author Posted February 23, 2016 if i was in either of those positions, id get a fork and just stab my kidney out of them, and sew it back in. these are the most disgusting human beings on the planet. truly worthless and just horrible 2
stillafool Posted February 23, 2016 Posted February 23, 2016 Didn't George Lopez wife give him a kidney and then he divorced her for another woman? People hang on to your kidneys. 2
Tayla Posted February 23, 2016 Posted February 23, 2016 We make informed decisions as best we can at the time and the circumstances warrant. Most spouses would do the same , along with helping most of their kinfolk. I'm sure she regrets his behavior afterwards, and regrets that her life giving act was treated ungraciously. I already know three groups that I would not permit my organs to go to: People who don't like Chocolate People who really don't like Chocolate and People who secretly like Chocolate but won't come out of the closet , cuz they are secretly eating it! 2
Author BeFierce Posted February 23, 2016 Author Posted February 23, 2016 Didn't George Lopez wife give him a kidney and then he divorced her for another woman? People hang on to your kidneys. omg i'm just loooking this up right now . what an *******. I wish someone made a movie with this scenario 1
Toodaloo Posted February 23, 2016 Posted February 23, 2016 I already know three groups that I would not permit my organs to go to: and People who secretly like Chocolate but won't come out of the closet , cuz they are secretly eating it! Mmmffffmmmffmf fmmmffff fmmmm Sorry had a mouthful then. What I was going to say was thanks for the kidney... Got any spare lungs going? 1
Tayla Posted February 24, 2016 Posted February 24, 2016 Mmmffffmmmffmf fmmmffff fmmmm Sorry had a mouthful then. What I was going to say was thanks for the kidney... Got any spare lungs going? Your welcome! Any lady who enjoys choco is a friend of mine! This topic is a good reminder to decide about organ donation though! Funny thing is It reminds me of the monty python skit...." But but Im not done with it yet!!!" Its hilarious! 1
bathtub-row Posted February 24, 2016 Posted February 24, 2016 I think there's a lesson here to not marry within your own blood type.
Toodaloo Posted February 24, 2016 Posted February 24, 2016 The way I look at it is this. If I can spare an organ to save a life then it is worth while. No person is perfect. We all have faults. But the basics are there. If we pull a person from a dangerous situation, a burning car for example, and we then discover that they stole that car. Does that mean that you would go and put them back in the burning car? Granted I wouldn't want my organs to go into the body of a rapist, child molester or murderer, but adulterer? There are worse things even if that is a terrible and immoral thing to do. I agree with Bath tub! Check the blood group before you put a ring on it! 2
xxoo Posted February 24, 2016 Posted February 24, 2016 Leaving someone who loved you enough to give you a kidney is almost absurdly awful. It's a wonder people sleep at night. Still, in the Lopez case, they had a child together. I would give a kidney to the father of my children whether he wanted to be with me or not. I'd do it for my kids, who need their father alive and healthy. 2
soleilesquire Posted February 24, 2016 Posted February 24, 2016 Leaving someone who loved you enough to give you a kidney is almost absurdly awful. It's a wonder people sleep at night. Still, in the Lopez case, they had a child together. I would give a kidney to the father of my children whether he wanted to be with me or not. I'd do it for my kids, who need their father alive and healthy. This is because your life does not revolve around vengeance. Some people's do, sadly. 2
deep_night Posted February 27, 2016 Posted February 27, 2016 if someone gave their kidney for me... god, id feel happily obliged for the rest of my life. man, even if i had to breakup with that person, i'd try to repay them by gifting them most of the things i own :/ it's like feeling someone has your back in this life, even if you aren't a couple anymore. i can understand why she feels that way. it's the dissapointment of one-sided love.
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