egalew Posted February 22, 2016 Posted February 22, 2016 Guy who dumped me two weeks ago, send me an afternoon a text that reads: "Just to let you know I was thinking of you. No need to respond." WTF? What is that all about?
brokengirl85 Posted February 22, 2016 Posted February 22, 2016 Dumpers remorse (google it) Now that he dumped you, he might want you back...to dump you again. 3
soph-walker Posted February 22, 2016 Posted February 22, 2016 Dumpers remorse (google it) Now that he dumped you, he might want you back...to dump you again. Run. Run like the wind away from him. Delete his number and don't look back. I've just smelt the coffee with a similar situation and it's been a breakthrough to realise. He's probably just bored and wants attention.
kidm Posted February 22, 2016 Posted February 22, 2016 do you see what's visibly missing from that text? "I made a mistake" or some similar sentiment. Dumpers sending "thinking of you" or "i miss you" texts doesn't mean s**t. He went to the bakery and is serving you the crumbs of all the baked goods he bought. Ignore. 3
Zahara Posted February 22, 2016 Posted February 22, 2016 Guy who dumped me two weeks ago, send me an afternoon a text that reads: "Just to let you know I was thinking of you. No need to respond." WTF? What is that all about? Common. Hmm...I'm bored. Who can I reach out to (while scrolling through his contacts)? Maybe I can text egalew. That's his "thinking of you." Do what he says. No need to respond.
carotini Posted February 22, 2016 Posted February 22, 2016 Delete, block, move on. You’re not responsible for figuring him out, and neither are we. I notice quite a few people allow themselves to get stuck in that “Why, why, why, what does this mean?” trap, especially with cryptic text messages. It’s a waste of time. He dumped you. It’s over. Stop wondering. Live a better life. 2
newmoon Posted February 22, 2016 Posted February 22, 2016 if he dumped you and you still have the ability to receive texts... you didn't block him. you should be blocking all calls and texts and social media from the dumper. not doing so only leaves the door open for stuff like this... unless that's secretly want you want?
privategal Posted February 22, 2016 Posted February 22, 2016 "No need to respond" means he believes you will but just in case your strong enough to ignore him he built in that I dont care alibi. His ego will hate to be ignored. He wanted an ego stroke of thinking of you too...then he would probably ignore your reply and feel satisfied. Block. Hes just bored and fishing or he wouldve said I cant live without you. 2
hannahnyc Posted February 22, 2016 Posted February 22, 2016 He is clearly 100% a fu*k boy...... classic move... stay far away 2
RRM321 Posted February 22, 2016 Posted February 22, 2016 Look up: "Hoovering" He's afraid you're not missing him enough, that his absence is not paramount in your life.
Author egalew Posted February 23, 2016 Author Posted February 23, 2016 RRM321 - Just read about hoovering. Fascinating. Thanks for the tip.
whichwayisup Posted February 23, 2016 Posted February 23, 2016 Guy who dumped me two weeks ago, send me an afternoon a text that reads: "Just to let you know I was thinking of you. No need to respond." WTF? What is that all about? Block his texts. He's a jerk.
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