Learning how to walk away.

[Mister Mr.]

I don't wanna be a slave to my emotions anymore.

I don't want to waste anymore time thinking bout her or depressing myself. I did love her very much but its time to walk away completely.

 

I just want to walk away now and never look back. I want to be happy. I mean she has moved on. Why can't I. It was first relationship, high skl stuff. She left me. Hell I've been thru worst. Why can't I get over this. Get back to my old happy self.

 

I can't believe I've become so depressed over this. I think how things gonna be when I Just let go and be happy again. I can't reach it. Any tips?

[Larryville]

Just discovered a new Netflix show “Love” the show definitely NOT about love but how screwed up people and relationships are. Don’t know how old you are but it never gets better until you learn how to stop diving too deep.

[smudge21]

Mister Mr, you need to take your broken wings and learn to fly again... sorry, had to do it.

 

 

I totally get your pain. I'm feeling so low right now and can't believe I feel this way when in reality I wouldn't even consider what I have (had... or never had) was a relationship with her. It's screwed up and I'd love nothing more than a button to press to simply forget I'd ever met her. As good as the happy times have been, they haven't been worth the bad ones.

 

 

I can recall just being happy with me, doing my own thing and not even wanting to get involved. That's when this one slipped under my wall and got stuck there, next to me. I so wish I had an easy answer to give and take that would take us both back to a happy place; that place I was at before she came along. I know it exists, I was there 4 months ago.

 

 

Sadly, no matter what the cause of the pain is, you can't force the healing. It just happens over time. You'll have okay days and really bad days, but eventually some good days will start to creep in. There's no time limit either so don't feel bad if you're still feeling low for a long time. Just ride the waves my friend. It gets better.. it always does.

[William]

Folks, thanks for your comments. We'll retain them but this was one of our hydras (banned members returning) so I'll close up the thread.