Body pictures on profile update.

[AMJ]

Update to this lively discussion:

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/570047-guys-asking-body-photos-old

 

I finally posted one full body photo and one waist-up photo. Neither outfit is extremely tight or low cut, or short. But it's only taken three days after posting those pictures to get the first dirty message on Bumble. I've had the account for two months now, and not a single dirty message, until after these photos go up.

 

He started out having a normal conversation too, and then slipped right into a not ideal conversation. It's so disappointing. He looked like a decent guy.

 

Also, another guy messaging me says my pictures are great, but he wants to see more. "What other kind of pictures should I send you?" He says "As many as you want". I'm completely convinced that there is no amount of pictures that would be enough for some people.

 

I don't even have any questions to ask the forum, just wanted to give an update. My guess is there will be an average of 2-3 dirty messages per week.

[joseb]

There are always going to be an element of people on these sites like that. Most of them probably are not even close to what they represent and have no interest in meeting up.

I have so many tinder matches that just totally ignore me. I used to get pissed off but now I have fun sending increasingly silly messages (not rude ones, just in case it us a real person!)

[PegNosePete]

Also, another guy messaging me says my pictures are great, but he wants to see more. "What other kind of pictures should I send you?" He says "As many as you want".

Rather than negotiate or try to bargain with this kind of idiot, just block. It's a waste of brain power.

[Otter2569]

I'm a guy and I get those too. You ignore what you choose to ignore or delete / block them. It comes with the territory. Besides better to find out now that waste time on a date with these d-bags.

 

Quick story. I was chatting up a woman. She starts talking about selfies, she suggested we trade more pics. Hers shows ample cleavage, next is t shirt with obvious nipple, then topless (of course in interested I'm a guy). We talk for a few more days then agree to meet.

 

Turns out she is still married, husband is crazy jealous and she is 50lbs (I am being kind) heavier than she was in her pics.

 

The joys of OLD!!