Mizz Layta Posted February 21, 2016 Posted February 21, 2016 (edited) I posted a thread about a guy who was giving the impression that he just wanted sex and subsequently disappeared when I made it clear that I'm looking for someone to date . Here is recap of this saga -I met a guy when I was out and he gave me his number to text him -I texted him the following day -He sounded happy to hear from me but didn't really ask me any personal questions about me other than my age -Then he immediately shifted the conversation into sex.He asked me about my sexual preferences -I overlooked and ignored this glaring red flag and stayed in contact with him(I know stupid of me) - We made plans to hangout ,when I asked him what we were doing,he just said'' we will figure It out" -He flaked out on our plans and apologized ... something had came up, according to him but didn't bother to make alternative plans -The next day,he wanted to come over to my apartment in the middle of the night instead but I declined -It then sank in that I had been ignoring the red flags waving in my face -I told him that I'm looking for someone to date and not just to hook up with.. Then proceeded to explain that I wanted to keep our interactions outside our homes as we get to know each other first.I asked him if he wants the same things as me or just a hook up?he just said "It is what I want"I asked him to confirm if he is referring to hooking up or taking it slow?He never responded back and disappeared -I subsequently learned that he lied about his age according to his Face book.He is younger than what I thought Now few months later,to my suprise he just texted me today and said"Hey it's me Trevor,I have been looking for your number for so long"Thats all he said.I don't think I'm going to respond.Any thoughts?What does he want? Edited February 21, 2016 by Mizz Layta
Popsicle Posted February 21, 2016 Posted February 21, 2016 He got mad that you told him you weren't ready before, and had a little pouty tantrum. Now he's back to try it your way, however, always keep it in your mind how he acted that time when he didn't get his way.
Zahara Posted February 21, 2016 Posted February 21, 2016 Sniffing around to see if he can get lucky. 3
Redhead14 Posted February 21, 2016 Posted February 21, 2016 Sniffing around to see if he can get lucky. Exactly. All his other options dried up so he's circling back to the ones who either passed on him or he passed on to see if they are "still" there and maybe changed their minds. BUMP . . . 2
brokengirl85 Posted February 21, 2016 Posted February 21, 2016 He's testing the waters to see if he can have sex now. Why were you thinking he's texting you?
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