steve1701 Posted February 21, 2016 Posted February 21, 2016 It's this woman on my job that I like. I've been working there for about 6 months. At first I didn't pay her any attention. She started messing with me with the sexual comments. Sometimes I would accidentally rub against her on her breast and rear end. One time I apologized for rubbing up against her and she told me she likes it when a man rubs up against her like that. She even laughs at my stupid jokes. After a few months of this I started getting attracted to her. So I decided to ask her if she wanted to hang out and she said yes. I work at a restaurant that serves alcohol and I would offer to buy her a drink. She wouldn't let me do that. I even would test her to see if she would use me for my money by asking her if she would need anything. She'd refused that too. As a matter of fact she kind of backed away a little bit. Well so did I. I gave her the silent treatment for a couple of days. When she started showing signs of interest again, I just showed signs of disinterest. She was trying to talk to me the whole time. After a while she stopped. I still felt the same way about her though. So one day the manager came and asked me what was wrong. She said my friend told her I wasn't talking to her anymore. So I figured she might care a little. What I did was I had some rose sent to her anonymously. I let her wonder about that for awhile. When I finally told her they were from me, she went crazy. She really, really liked that. So I gave her my number, told her I liked her and I asked her if she wanted me to stop. I told her I'm a man and I could accept it if she didn't want to take it further. She said she didn't want me to stop yet. What did she mean by not yet? So can someone tell me what up with this woman and what should I do next.
smudge21 Posted February 21, 2016 Posted February 21, 2016 Very back and forth... one of you needs to steer this vehicle correctly before it crashes or runs out of gas. Ask her out - there's clearly something there, but what is anyones guess. Only she knows what she's thinking and you have to find that out... I don't think you have anything to lose as you sound quite in control (you both seem like you're playing games and quite happy for it to be that way) so what have you got to lose?
Author steve1701 Posted February 21, 2016 Author Posted February 21, 2016 It seems like when I show interest in her she kind of acts indifferent. Is that her way of playing hard to get?
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