figgurinoutlife Posted June 11, 2005 Posted June 11, 2005 Well, I called my ex today after 2 months of NC. I told her not to call me anymore so I could heal and she didn't like that and was mad, but she respected my wishes. I called her today because she left a message on my machine last night saying she has 2 of my movies, she sounded very bitter on the message. So I was like okay I'm going to call her cause she obviously wants me to since she called about some stupid movies. I called, got her voicemail, left a message saying I got her message and hung up. 2 min later I get a call from her # but it is a guy saying if I dialed this #, and I said yes. So then he gives the phone to my ex and I say hey, I got your message and thank you for my movies, blah, blah. Right away she said she will put the movies under my door mat, and I need to leave her $2 under there for her to pick up because I ran her school ID out of money, which was like months ago. She then said she would have given the movies to our neighbor (my ex and I live in the same apt. complex) but he told her I was never home. That is a lie, she never talked to him. She knows I'm never home because she still comes around here everyday (she has been staying with her boyfriend 85% of the time). She mentioned the fact I'm never home several times, like she has wanted to know where I've been. I didn't say anything. She is very bitter toward me now, but why call me if she's going to act like this. I had to do NC 2 months ago to heal, but I waited till she called me to call her, I have tested the waters and they are bitter. Then she told me she had to go because her boyfriend wanted to talk to her. If she was ever dating anyone before I started NC she always implied whoever she was dating as her "friend," now it's boyfriend. So why did she call me if she's going to act like this? What does she want?
WithOrWithoutYou Posted June 11, 2005 Posted June 11, 2005 She wanted that contact with you, it was not about the movies, and certainly not about $2 either. It sounds like she was testing the waters (even though she was bitter about your asking for NC so you could heal) to see if anything was still there. She may not be completely satisfied with her new BF, and may be doing the same "friends" thing to him, that she was doing to you. She didn't count on her new boyfriend getting your message, and calling you back then confronting her with it. He may be smart enough to figure out that two videos and $2 wasn't a good enough reason to break two months of NC too, and it obviosuly gave him pause.
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