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Hate boyfriend's porn use. Am I too insecure for a relationship?


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And the remaining 20-30% also watch it too but deny it. :laugh:

 

Not true. There is a growing number of guys who realise the negative effects of porn use. I'm one of them.

And im single and still stay away from it 100%.

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When you get with one that doesn't, you find out just how amazing sex can be. It's like a totally different experience.

 

So yeah, the rest of the dating pool can have them. Enjoy.

 

I realize that if my husband were to get hit by a semi tomorrow, I may not meet another man that I can have that kind of intimacy with again. But I'm sure not settling for "porn moves." Screw that noise.

 

I think this very much depends on the guy, having been both with men who do and don't watch it. Some who watch are great in bed and fully capable of emotional intimacy too. Others not. Same goes for men who don't watch.

 

If the man is replacing real sex with porn or expecting real sex to be an imitation of porn, the problem is largely the man in question.

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I think this very much depends on the guy, having been both with men who do and don't watch it. Some who watch are great in bed and fully capable of emotional intimacy too. Others not. Same goes for men who don't watch.

 

If the man is replacing real sex with porn or expecting real sex to be an imitation of porn, the problem is largely the man in question.

 

Of course the individual plays a role.

 

Just like I'm sure some drinks are better drivers while wasted.

 

And some sober people are awful drivers no matter what.

 

But overall, I'm not going to hop in a car with a drunk driver no matter "how awesome" he claims to be at it.

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Tell him ur going to the magic mike bar to check out the big packages

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