cber8860 Posted February 21, 2016 Posted February 21, 2016 I was with this girl for 7 years met when we was 13. It was going great till she got this new job, and met this 17 year old boy im 21 she is 21. She suddenly takes a minor diagreement and says where done and in 2 days has slept with 2 guys from her work and now is dating one of them who is 17. I am lost broken let down and very depressed the low blow and drinking came where her Christmas arrived in the mail. then not long after that she comes back says I love you I made a mistake. But i told her i didn't get you used and I will not take you back used. I felt I deserve better then that, and i deserved more respect. she was beautiful, I affectionately called her my Little Hannie do to her 5 foot 1 inch 115 pound stature and my over 6ft one. I was involved in a care accident that left me chronicly ill in the fall of 2015 and feel this is what lead to my loss. I have tried to date but keep getting called creepy and or frinedzoned. I am at my whits end. Im chronically ill and unable to work my car is destroyed and I don't think ill ever find that love I felt again. Im lonely and scared to even try. Was I wrong in rejecting her come back? Will i ever find love again?
mightycpa Posted February 21, 2016 Posted February 21, 2016 If you do, you're probably going to get a used one.
rickdiculous Posted February 21, 2016 Posted February 21, 2016 Everyone wants to fall in love. So, yes you will fall in love one day. It's like saying, air is going out of style and I'm scared I won't find some. I wouldn't be worried about finding love else where. It sound's like you need self love first. You need to be healthy first. You can't love someone else before you love yourself. I remember dating creepy/ friendzone guys. I found them creepy because I could tell how much they just wanted me to love them. It was too demanding and unattractive. Yes, you should start a new relationship with yourself. Step one; Visualize your ideal self. Step two; work towards your best self. Be patient loving and and caring to yourself. Eat right, work out and fall in love with yourself. Step three; Do this over and over again.
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