He lied about cybersex and happy ending at AMP. Do I stay for the kids?

[Eighty_nine]

People CAN change, but they have to WANT to first. I see no indication that your husband wants to.

 

Best wishes and hugs.

 

Yes. And I'm going to go against the grain and say marriages are partnerships worth working on. If everyone broke up when they hit serious trouble, no one would be together.

 

Because this wasn't an emotional affair with one particular person, I'd be willing to work on this if I were in your situation. If it turns out it was an emotional affair, I'd be more likely to just walk.

[VeveCakes]

How much is he spending on these chats? How sad for him, hope that webcam keeps him warm at night when he's all alone. He is probably buying those toys and sending them to the girls. They get their clients to buy them stuff all the time especially for shows. Most of those webcam girls are on hard drugs too, he could be helping them support that habit too by throwing them his "gold".

 

I hate technology for this.

 

I wish you luck OP.

[Gigi2015]

He's a cheater and a liar. He gasligts you. Don't have any more babies with him. You don't want to be his parole officer...good for you. But-- If you decide to stay it must be trust and verify....HUGS.