candie13 Posted February 23, 2016 Share Posted February 23, 2016 It's personal. Last man I dated was very reassuring, yet it still took me 4-5 months to feel secure. We broke up a month later. I think ... In all honesty, it's ok to say to yourself you're seeing someone, but stay aware that as long as you haven't celebrated your one year anniversary, everything can go tits up at all moment. Don't force yourself into a false sense of security. If anything, listen to yourself much much more. Sometimes it just takes time. It takes time to know a person and time to decide if you really like them. Don't pressure yourself into an "yes". You're just not there yet, fair enough. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted February 23, 2016 Share Posted February 23, 2016 I was secure from the beginning but I would have a niggle every now and then when my now wife would do something that reminded me she was playing the field some when we first started dating. Anytime I felt it I just reminded myself to ignore it since she was spending more and more time with me and less and less time playing the field.. Link to post Share on other sites
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