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How can I talk to this girl I haven't seen in 4 years?


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Literally just now she liked two of my face book posts that were hours apart

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So far she just likes your attention and isn't terribly interested. Have you even talked on the phone? All texting?

 

Call her. I'm sure she won't answer, so leave a VM saying "I want to take you out to dinner at XYZ on Friday. Are you free?"

 

edit: Oh and if she doesn't give a strong response...stop communicating with her.

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Well she has wanted me to go eat at her place of work but I haven't been able to have the time. I had a major crush on this girl in high school and she's finally out of a relationship to 'just stop' communicating with her?

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Well she has wanted me to go eat at her place of work but I haven't been able to have the time. I had a major crush on this girl in high school and she's finally out of a relationship to 'just stop' communicating with her?

 

The poster said if she doesn't give a strong response, then stop communicating with her.

 

Don't read too much into FB "likes." They take 3 seconds and zero effort. Ask her if she'd like to get coffee with you on X day at X place.

 

If she is only lukewarm about actually meeting, then you know you can stop pursuing it.

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Okay well she texted me on her own in the morning and likes a lot of my **** on Facebook but I asked her a question trying to get to knows her better but she hasn't replied after hours. We have a mutual friend who she kind of texts now and then...more than me actually so I'm just gonna give up....

 

So should I just ignore her and not even text her at all or should I tell her something like ,"Well it seems like you don't really want to talk and I don't want to waste your time including my own."

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There's no reason to give her a goodbye. That's just you fishing/hoping that she'll say "No, don't leave me!"

 

No need for goodbye. Just "stop communicating with her".

 

Spend your time and effort on women who deserve it.

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