JC2016 Posted February 19, 2016 Posted February 19, 2016 I am 24, she is 22. We both have long term partners. We have seen each other for sex about 4 times now and we are moving away to new places in the next few weeks so it is unlikely that our partners will find out. We both try to stay as distant from each other as possible on a romantic side of things. For example, she does not like to kiss with tongues. She does not like eye contact during sex (well, she did, but then she didn't) and sometimes she closes her eyes and avoids looking at me. The sex is very very good, today we were at it and she came very obviously (squirted). I have to admit she is the best partner I have had in the bedroom yet. I try to talk about my partner and emphasise that we are together, i do emphasise that the relationship is on the rocks but i don't see myself leaving her. She obviously loves her partner, but he is very cold sometimes with sex, and older than both of us (he is late 30s). So , it was all about the sex and being friends only. This is where the weird part comes in, my fwb seems to hate me in a way, the hateful look she gives sometimes when I am not looking, the look of disgust. So, in a way I know that I am being used for sex, she always also tries to initiate sex more than me. Today it dawned on me that we are never going to really see each other again, she is settling down with her partner and they are buying their first house together. I am in a dead relationship where my gf thinks everything is fine because I make the gestures and take her to nice places. My head is in a weird place, before today I did not really think that I cared. But now that I think she looks at me with disgust and that I am never going to see her again... I really feel quite bad.
Alamo657 Posted February 19, 2016 Posted February 19, 2016 You're not FWB, you're both cheaters. FWB are singles. 7
TaraMaiden2 Posted February 19, 2016 Posted February 19, 2016 You're not FWB, you're both cheaters. FWB are singles. Says it all, really. 2
Alamo657 Posted February 20, 2016 Posted February 20, 2016 This is where the weird part comes in, my fwb seems to hate me in a way, the hateful look she gives sometimes when I am not looking, the look of disgust. So, in a way I know that I am being used for sex, she always also tries to initiate sex more than me. Today it dawned on me that we are never going to really see each other again, she is settling down with her partner and they are buying their first house together. I am in a dead relationship where my gf thinks everything is fine because I make the gestures and take her to nice places. My head is in a weird place, before today I did not really think that I cared. But now that I think she looks at me with disgust and that I am never going to see her again... I really feel quite bad. Her feelings of disgust probably come from 3 things : 1) she has better sex with you than with her future husband (?) 2) your own cheating situation makes her feel she cannot trust you 3) she's disgusted at herself for cheating just for sex with a guy she doesn't love That's just a wild guess. 1
Imported Posted February 20, 2016 Posted February 20, 2016 (edited) I feel really bad for the guy your cheating [partner] has roped in. [] Same with your "partner" of course, but at least your relations with her will probably end anyway. Edited February 20, 2016 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Language 1
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