GuenChan Posted June 11, 2005 Posted June 11, 2005 Well I posted a while ago about this guy I dated, and how he never really called me after our first date. He just said somthing to the effect of me going out and finding a hot guy at the club. No idea why he'd go and say that, and he's the last guy I've dated... it's been 3 months now. Anyway,s we talk everyday at work on the phone because I use his company for business. So he drops in yesterday and has beers with the guys, but he's hanging around my desk the entire time, pats me on the head a few times affectionately. I totally blow him off cause I just can't trust such an inconsistent guy. So I say night to all the guys go home. Next day we talk on the phone again, and at the end of the conversation he tosses in "so are you doing anything tonight." I said I dunno, and he invites me to go waterskiing. I reclined later after I called him back, just because I have no idea what his intentions are. He's just so freaking odd about it all, what is this after all that time of not doing anything. I'm really confused and I still like him, but I also feel that I should just get over him. I just need advice on what's going on in his head, because I really have no idea. I don't know any other guys who stop by our work to have beers with my guys. Totally confusing. I just don't know if I should bother trusting him.
ConfusedInOC Posted June 11, 2005 Posted June 11, 2005 Find another guy. He's just too weird and like (go ahead and bash me guys) most men, he doesn't understand how to communicate properly.
Author GuenChan Posted June 11, 2005 Author Posted June 11, 2005 I know, it's just hard right now, I'm not going through a man-hating phase. I just don't know how to trust someone right now, and he doesn't help. It really just makes me so confused and depressed. I guess it's not his fault, more like he's just not what I need. I'm a straight shooter really, and I work in an industry with mostly men. So it's not like I shouldn't be able to understand him, I guess feelings tend to make it harder to cope or understand what's going on. Really wish I could move past it, I was doing a good job till yesterday, when he walked in and my heart skipped a beat
MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 Posted June 11, 2005 Posted June 11, 2005 You went on one date, 3 months ago, and you're trying to figure him out already? You need to actually spend time with him to give this a chance. If you want to know what he's all about, take some initiative and call him up. Too bad you said no to the waterskiing. I'll it took him these last three months just to get up the nerve to ask you out again. I'll be he's really into you and is afraid of facing his fears of it not working out. What are ou afraid of?
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