AdamJones Posted February 18, 2016 Posted February 18, 2016 I spoiled a girl and I missed her text and a facebook message last night for the second time when normally I always answer and I dont mind answering. I am still trying to attract this girl and be confident and overcome insecurities. I know this is stupid, but it bothers me when this happens because I know she has plenty options. Its hard to move on with my day. Im just down on myself cause I cant seem to do Other.. things right i guess. Low self esteem right now. neh.. any encouragement would be appreciated
preraph Posted February 18, 2016 Posted February 18, 2016 You don't need to feel you must answer any message right away. If someone gets mad because it's a day or two later, they either have too much time on their hands or are immature, or both. People with full lives don't live by their social media.
Redhead14 Posted February 18, 2016 Posted February 18, 2016 I spoiled a girl and I missed her text and a facebook message last night for the second time when normally I always answer and I dont mind answering. I am still trying to attract this girl and be confident and overcome insecurities. I know this is stupid, but it bothers me when this happens because I know she has plenty options. Its hard to move on with my day. Im just down on myself cause I cant seem to do Other.. things right i guess. Low self esteem right now. neh.. any encouragement would be appreciated I am still trying to attract this girl and be confident and overcome insecurities -- whose insecurities are you trying to overcome? It appears that SHE has some insecurity if she gave you a hard time for not responding to a couple of texts/FB mssgs. Simply explain why you didn't respond and a leave it at that. Sure, girls like to have their messages answered and it makes them feel more secure, but if a guy misses one or two once in a while, a secure woman isn't going to lose her mind over it. He will get in touch with me, likely say, "sorry, I'missed you message, X happened what can I help you with" or whatever. And, if he didn't get in touch with me fairly soon, I'd being moving on anyway myself. My point is, if you've been doing well with communication and you missed a couple and she's nuts over it, it's probably best to move on from her. She going to be clingy, overbearing/demanding. It's her, not you! And, for the record, get out of the habit of developing a relationship with someone via Facebook and texts alone. Pick up the damn phone and have a real, one on one, adult conversation with feelings, intonation/inflection behind those words. It'll be more satisfying and foster closeness. A person can you send you 10 texts telling you how much lo
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