dannmann1992 Posted February 18, 2016 Posted February 18, 2016 I used to date this this girl back in highschool and I ran into her 8 years later. I reached out and we started talking. I do most of the reaching out, I think she's only said something first once or twice and she usually just doesn't respond back after a while. In Jan. I asked if I could make dinner for her for valentines day, she said yes, I asked what she liked to eat but didn't get a response. She's been studying for an important test so she's been really busy. So I asked again a few weeks ago she said yes. So we finally had vday. I made dinner put rose petals on the bed, all that good stuff. We had sex for the first time and she kept getting dry, even after a few more tries. Was she not interested/attracted enough? Anyways I was kissing her forehead, playing in her hair, cuddling, talking etc. Eventually I dropped her off on Monday but we haven't talked since. Neither one of us has said anything to each other. Is she not interested? Was she not into the sex either?*
MoonPrismPower Posted February 18, 2016 Posted February 18, 2016 First of all, I'm sorry you're going through this! It sucks to be left wondering about stuff like this. From a woman's point of view, there are a lot of reasons why she might have gotten " dry" that could be unrelated to how attracted she is to you. In the same way that you might lose an erection when you're with someone you find very attractive! I think the fact that she slept with you is a good indication that she was attracted to you. But the fact that she's backed off on communicating with you is a red flag. Maybe she just feels really awkward after? Maybe she is waiting for you to make the first move? She could be feeling exactly how you feel, wondering if you didn't have a good time because you haven't contacted her since. It's hard, but I think if you wanna have a clear answer, it might be best to be straight forward and just ask her what's going on, so you don't have to wonder.
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