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First date but no second?


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OP, yes he is interested. Yes its feasible that he does want to date.

 

Why are ppl so quick to toss this opportunity to the side? Sorry but instant and speed fast relationships rarely last.....

 

He has not shown any signs that he is a player, but rather a man of the community, Good trait to have! Some folks are worth getting to know.

 

Best wishes-

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What makes you think that? It took my ex bf more than 2 weeks to ask me out on the second date.

 

Duh,because he has other women that's why he's not gonna ask you out anytime soon

 

Im not saying guys have to ask you out fairly soon otherwise they arent interested,and sure your guy can take his time. Your ex did. But did your ex ask you out first then pretend he forgot about it ?

 

If this guy was really interested he would have apologised and schedule another date . Did he even acknowledge it??

 

Anyway doesn't look like You wanna drop him. Then at least stop replying for several days, pretend to be busy, OK? so he will know he needs to either step up or get lost because this girl has many other better options !

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It possible that weekend he's putting up posters, he's actually going out with another woman?

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I guess anything is possible at this point. The same goes for me too. I'm also seeing another guy who is really nice and fun to talk to. We have already gone out two or three times. I guess I like him but not enough to pursue him at this point.

 

With this one, it's been only one date, and I do enjoy our conversations so far. I feel a better connection with him than with the other guy in terms of interest, personality and well physical attraction. I just don't want to pin him down. I wouldn't appreciate that if he tried the same at this point.

 

After all, we never made any plans for Sat anyway. It was more like "maybe we can hang out then" but nothing concrete because my schedule is quite full this weekend.

 

I'm just going to give him a few more days. If he doesn't ask for a date for next weekend, I'm going to write him off.

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