OK_computer Posted February 18, 2016 Posted February 18, 2016 It was after the bar incident. She initiated the texting to tell me to stop "harassing" her in public. Jeez, all I did was ask her if she had a minute to talk. Not very wise (but then who is after several grey goose's) but I do not think that I did anything wrong. I asked why she "needed space" this time. She insisted that she just needed time alone to "be herself." I pointed out that she has always been herself and that we saw each other so infrequently before (average 2 times a month) that she couldn't possibly get any more space from me. I also said that I would appreciate it if she would tell me the truth; that if there was another person in the picture I would like to know. Again, she accused me of being delusional and said that the guy she was with at the bar is an old friend from high school who was just visiting town for the day and had already gone home. Then she goes into this crap about how she misses the "old me" but the way I've been acting lately she doesn't know who I am and she doesn't know if she can hang out with me again because I've publicly embarrassed her..... What you did by asking her for a minute doesn't seem all that crazy. But when she texted you to leave her alone you should've just said ok and gone NC. She seems to want a lot of attention, doesn't care if its good or bad.
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