PuppetLife Posted February 15, 2016 Posted February 15, 2016 Ok, so just some background information on this problem. Well, firstly, A and B are like best friends, but A is also good friends with C, and according to C, A often complains about how B is mean to her and doesn't treat her like a friend, etc, but A always end up going back to B. As for me, i'm a acquaintance to all three of them. Well, last friday, our school is gathering at this hall place and my friends and i weren't too sure how to get there, so A said to meet at a nearby fast food place, and that both B and herself would be there. However, at the last minute, my other friends ask to change the meeting place because apparently it's closer. But i guess this message didn't communicate properly to A. Anyway, so my friends and i ended up getting there before A and B, and a classmate told me that A was waiting for me at the fast food place, so i called her and asked her to meet me at the hall. It was all good and fine until A came and told me that C is mad at me, been b!tching about me to her friends, and had made some racist comments about me. So apparently, while A and B was waiting there, C was ordering, and when C ask A to wait for her, A said no because she needed to help me get there. And C is mad because A chose me over her. Well, today when i went to class, C came up to me and ask me if A and B b!tched about her. And i was like ughhh.... so she said "so they did. What did they say?" I didn't want to be like talking behind people's back so i just said " I don't really understand whats going on, but from what i heard from them, i guess you're upset because you wanted them to wait for you, but they leave you there alone and went to find me." C then said that that's not case, and according to her, she didn't know how to get to that hall place, and wanted A to help her get there. But A and B ditched her. She then ask me again what they said, so i repeated myself, however this time i accidentally said that B wanted to come and look for my friends and I, and i didn't even notice it until C start telling me how B is a liar, it's none of her business, she's so annoying, etc. But at that time it was too late for me to say like oh no, i didn't mean that, or whatever. So now i'm actually really scared, like what if C talk to A about it, or even tell people that i said B started this problem? and what if A ask me why i told C about it ? or even worse what if A spread rumours about how C was b!tching about me and A herself was being nice by telling me, but i turn around and tell C that A b!tched about her? What am i supposed to do? please help.
basil67 Posted February 15, 2016 Posted February 15, 2016 Sorry, I can't follow. But looking at your history, I think you need to find new friends who don't love drama.
Jacob_22 Posted February 15, 2016 Posted February 15, 2016 Sorry, I can't follow. But looking at your history, I think you need to find new friends who don't love drama. Pretty much this.
preraph Posted February 15, 2016 Posted February 15, 2016 I'm bearing in mind that school years are when people learn social skills. My advice is next time anyone comes to you and wants to know why someone else did something, you refuse to talk about it and say "You'd need to ask them." That's it. You can't get in the middle without making a mess, and how grownups do it is they let the two with issues sort that out themselves. So start doing that right now. Just tell them they need to ask the person.
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