Koans Posted February 15, 2016 Posted February 15, 2016 Long story long. I dated a girl in 2011. Our communion was a span of only 4 months. When it got to the official part of being b/f g/f i said, "If you find someone better go with them". I said that coz i had no value in myself and i was broke while she was pursuing her RN. I know she took it the wrong way and it ended sour. She even blocked me on fb. So two days ago, she liked one of my pictures on facebook. And added me. Okkaaayyyy.....But the odd part is she added me on the same day she posted her newly wed pics of her self and new husband. I liked there pictures. Coz bro, this is 5 years ago. I dont feel **** anymore. I just wanted to share that.
Author Koans Posted February 15, 2016 Author Posted February 15, 2016 idk what you mean by that but ok
CarrieT Posted February 15, 2016 Posted February 15, 2016 idk what you mean by that but ok Meaning you were self defeating by telling her, "If you find someone better go with them." You were setting yourself up to be bested by someone else. And it told her volumes that you didn't think well of her either to tell her to dump you. That is what Madjac meant by you being a downer. You were down on yourself and it did not reflect well on her to be involved with you if you thought so little of yourself as to date her. Get it now? 2
hopelessemma Posted February 15, 2016 Posted February 15, 2016 IMO, she added you on FB to show off that she's married. Like "I got married first, I win". If she adds you the same day her wedding pictures went up there is a better chance of you seeing them. And she liked one of your photos so you'd get the notification and check her out. I could be totally wrong, but that would be my interpretation. Maybe getting married made her remember her past flings and she wants to get back in touch. Not in a romantic way, but in a "I've totally moved on and it was a long time ago" way.
madjac74 Posted February 15, 2016 Posted February 15, 2016 I cant imagine anyone would post pics on facebook to showoff...haha so crazy!
yxalitis Posted February 15, 2016 Posted February 15, 2016 I cant imagine anyone would post pics on facebook to showoff...haha so crazy! What world do you live in...? My ex Kay posted a phoe of her and her new bf in Decembner...her ONLY update in 6 months, before or after. Why...to show me she'd moved on.
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