Emaize3 Posted February 14, 2016 Posted February 14, 2016 So I have many posts on here but long story short, we had a very healthy, happy relationship for a year and a half. Very romantic and affectionate too. He dumped me for too many "differences".He's always said if there is a break up (not necessarily with me, but in general), he would never go back! Anyway, he has not tried reaching out at all whatsoever, which I expected since he is very mentally tough (was special ops military). So, is he thinking of me? Does he miss me? Is he hurting at all since he was the dumper? I can't get answers from him but I feel like I meant absolutely nothing to him. It's killing me.
ExpatInItaly Posted February 14, 2016 Posted February 14, 2016 I'm not a man, but I'm curious: what difference did he cite in breaking up?
edel Posted February 14, 2016 Posted February 14, 2016 I'm not a guy either but my advice- Stop wondering what he might be thinking! You're just hurting yourself. It is very possible that he's thinking a lot about you, but it's also possible that he had been thinking a long time about breaking up and feels relieved now. It doesn't matter what he thinks. Stop obsessing about him, and don't hope that he will come back, it just makes it worse. Believe me, been there done that. Cut every contact, unfollow him on social media and focus on your own life. 1
Author Emaize3 Posted February 14, 2016 Author Posted February 14, 2016 ExpatInItaly, he did say we have different parenting styles. We both have teens. He always said he wouldn't leave me because of the kids. I do have a difficult son but he's almost 18. Kids move on and move out. I would've waited but he Never talked to me about his concerns, even though he ALWAYS told me to communicate immediately if I had any concerns. He broke up by phone while I was at work and crying so we never sat down and talked. I have no idea what the other differences were, if any.
elaine567 Posted February 14, 2016 Posted February 14, 2016 ExpatInItaly, he did say we have different parenting styles. We both have teens. He always said he wouldn't leave me because of the kids. I do have a difficult son but he's almost 18. Kids move on and move out. I would've waited but he Never talked to me about his concerns, even though he ALWAYS told me to communicate immediately if I had any concerns. He broke up by phone while I was at work and crying so we never sat down and talked. I have no idea what the other differences were, if any. OK, he has teenage children, so he is a grown up adult man and he broke up with you by phone???? Doesn't sound very mentally tough to me...
Author Emaize3 Posted February 14, 2016 Author Posted February 14, 2016 You're right. Who does that??? Sure fooled me. Sad
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