traveler_n Posted February 14, 2016 Posted February 14, 2016 I met a guy a couple of weeks ago and we have great chemistry. He's a very busy surgery resident. He kisses me in public, holds my hand, plays with my hair, calls me beautiful, etc. We hooked up on the third date which is very out of the ordinary for me. I'm afraid of being used because I've had this happen in the past. I did ask him if he's looking for something casual and he said he would like a relationship. He said he's excited that we share so many interests and he would like to have someone who understands his very busy and hectic schedule. Now, to the thing that makes me worry..We do text each other on a daily basis but the last 2 days he's been sending me only "sexual" texts. Does this seem normal or does it seem like he's just looking for something casual? I just don't want to get hurt because I'm getting attached to him.. 1
Scarlett.O'hara Posted February 14, 2016 Posted February 14, 2016 He is saying one thing but acting the opposite. In my experience, when you only receive sexual texts, that is all he wants from you. You can send a very clear message by ignoring ALL sexual texts and only responding to texts that show a genuine interest in getting to know you as a person. I would caution you to not get too attached yet. He may want a relationship with someone at some point, but he might also think it is easier to treat you as a fwb if he can get away with it. Hopefully I'm wrong, but on the off chance you would be sensible to take a step back and see what his true intentions are first. I hope it works out. 1
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