nicchamilton Posted February 14, 2016 Posted February 14, 2016 I am 24 my ex gf is 22. We dated for about 4 months. The last two months I had alot of things going on in my life. I started making a big deal out of small things with her causing a lot of fights. At one point she even told me I have got to stop or she cannot handle this anymore. To me that made me overthink everything. I started to become worse actually until a week ago she dumped me. She told me that she had been very unhappy. When I explained to her this isnt me and ive just been dealing with alot she said that she understands that but cannot take it anymore. It was a good break up. We didnt fight and I told her I understand everything. So a week goes by with no contact and she tells me she misses me. I suggested we go get coffee. She agreed but later on asked me to just come over to her house. We ended up having sex. When I asked why we had sex she said she doesnt know. So then I told her that we should just casually hangout and see what happens. She said she needs time to think about that. She stated also that she isnt sure if she misses me more without me or if she is more unhappy with me. She said maybe later in the week we can hangout but she isnt sure right now. The only thing she is sure is right now she wants to be alone. I told her ok and will talk to her later on in the week. What should I do? What is going on here?
truth_seeker Posted February 14, 2016 Posted February 14, 2016 Well, for starters don't bother asking her why you had sex. You're not going to get a straight answer from her. You did it because you were horny... she did it because she wanted intimacy... 22 year old girl, fighting very early on in the "relationship", she doesn't know what she wants... be strong, man. Go find yourself a more stable chick who won't pick fights with you until at least the 1 year mark when she wants to know where are things going.
Author nicchamilton Posted February 14, 2016 Author Posted February 14, 2016 She wasn't the one causing fights I was.
preraph Posted February 14, 2016 Posted February 14, 2016 Unless you're willing to permanently change, she isn't going to put up with you. You tried it. She didn't like it. If that's you, move on and let her move on. She slept with you because breaking up is lonely business. She still doesn't like you, though.
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