Valentine's day - do I message.

[legless40]

Hi all and Happy Valentine's Day to you all. You heart felt lovelies.

 

No thread as yet so I guess I will start the discussion on whether or not to send a valentine's message/card/other wishes to an ex during LC. (Not NC I'm presuming).

 

To start off I'll share as you may know that I'm in LC with an ex on good terms.

 

Added note I forgot to get her a card last year, which upset her - the beginning of our fall I guess, I've learnt my lesson.

 

Been split for 6 months but maintained LC.

 

Last contact last Tuesday.

 

Thoughts? And how are you planning to act on this day?

[CarrieT]

Nope.

 

V-Day is for loving, committed relationships.

[Satu]

This is a bad idea.

 

Valentines are for couples, and you are single.

[legless40]

She is an ex- so no.

 

If anything a phone call = a real voice.

 

Unfortunately i no longer have her number.

[Simon Phoenix]

Awful, awful, awful idea. You're aren't a couple, don't act like one.

[brothers343]

Very bad idea.....let bygones be bygones.

[legless40]

I'm getting a definite vibe here

[BC1980]

Unfortunately i no longer have her number.

 

The fact that you don't have her number should be a clue. If you don't have her number, you aren't really a part of her life are you? So it would seem pretty odd to send a Valentine's Day card to her.

[TaraMaiden2]

I'm getting a definite vibe here

 

Good. Keep going.......

[legless40]

Didn't send. I feel there are details I left out... I.e. recent contact and how it was. But I guess it was my mind playing tricks on me. Wishing.

 

Didn't send anything in the end.

 

Thanks for the support.