jk1983 Posted June 10, 2005 Posted June 10, 2005 Right...i've been really good friends with this girl for a couple of years, she has a boyfriend who, to put it mildly, is a bit of a loose cannon. About a month ago the girl and myself were out at a bar when she suddenly kissed me, which to be honest came as a complete shock. We went back to hers and she told me that she'd fallen in love with me, she's really attractive and we get on amazingly. I want to be with her. The problem is that her boyfriend is heavily into drugs, he's often suicidal and relies on this girl alot. She says she wants to leave him but is scared of what he'll do if she does. We both really care about this guy. In the last week i've seen her a couple of times and she seems really off with me, it's doing my head in, i'm so in love with her but above all i'm worried about losing a great friend! Any help or advice would be hugely appreciated
DesertDweller Posted June 16, 2005 Posted June 16, 2005 Tell the girl not to feel obligated to this guy. I admit, I married my soon-to-be-ex-husband because he tried to commit suicide after I told him I wasn't ready to live together. Yes, I know, I was a fool. Anyway, it's his choice to use drugs. I would advise you to see the girl on the sly--without a sexual relationship (yet)--and get this guy into rehab.
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