hasekninh Posted February 12, 2016 Posted February 12, 2016 My gf is going through a hard time. Her brother and sister are going to a divorce. I just tired of her taking this issue on our relationship. She see that her brother and sister marriage are bad she think it will happen to our relationship. She keep seeing thing in them that she said it can happen to us. What did I do to.cause their.divorce? I always thing positive and said we can work it abd stay positive. When she sad or mad. She think negatively about our relationship that it wont work out, scare, etc. We been together 1 yrs. This is a long distance relationship bc I move to a new state for a job promotion. We always talk and text everyday.I bought her ticket to visit me and plan thing out when she get her. I got ger Valentine flower to sent to her house. What did I do wrong? Should I call it off?
Dreamwalkers Posted February 13, 2016 Posted February 13, 2016 I would wait until Valentine's day to do so, how long have you been having those issues with her about her family members facing divorce? In my opinion she shouldn't take it out on you or even worry that constantly about it, it's her sibling and sibling-in-law's issue.
thebear1490 Posted February 13, 2016 Posted February 13, 2016 I would say see it through. She needs you to be there for her emotionally at the moment. If she was treating you like an emotional punching bag then thats a different story. But I wouldn't make a decision like that till you see her in person and if you feel different the next time you see her then you will know
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