ted1194 Posted February 12, 2016 Posted February 12, 2016 I know some of you here may remember me and don't really like me. And yes this is about the same girl I wrote about here before. But that's besides the point. How do I get over a girl I loved who has a new boyfriend and claims to be happy with him? It hurts to see them together... My friends tell me she will regret leaving me someday and karma always strikes back. Do all women eventually regret leaving their man for someone else?
yxalitis Posted February 12, 2016 Posted February 12, 2016 I know some of you here may remember me and don't really like me. And yes this is about the same girl I wrote about here before. But that's besides the point. How do I get over a girl I loved who has a new boyfriend and claims to be happy with him? Time and space. DON'T see them together...avoid the situation. My friends tell me she will regret leaving me someday and karma always strikes back. Do all women eventually regret leaving their man for someone else? NO, you're friend is an idiot just trying to make you feel better. 2
Robratory Posted February 12, 2016 Posted February 12, 2016 Aw, ted... I doubt that after six posts, anyone hates you! Anyway, you get over a girl by forgetting her and moving on to a different girl. Forget about her. Don't worry about whether she's happy or not.
GR4 Posted February 12, 2016 Posted February 12, 2016 Time heals. I think everyone has been in your position before and I know I have felt like you countless times in the past. I would think I'd never, ever get over a girl that didn't want me but I always did. It's just hard to tell yourself at the time. I've been there man so you're not alone. 2
Satu Posted February 12, 2016 Posted February 12, 2016 I know some of you here may remember me and don't really like me. And yes this is about the same girl I wrote about here before. But that's besides the point. *How do I get over a girl I loved who has a new boyfriend and claims to be happy with him? It hurts to see them together... My friends tell me she will regret leaving me someday and karma always strikes back. Do all women eventually regret leaving their man for someone else? *Initially by fully accepting that its over, and that no relationship necromancy will bring her back. Once you've done that you can get on with your healing.
Jabron1 Posted February 12, 2016 Posted February 12, 2016 (edited) But that's besides the point. How do I get over a girl I loved who has a new boyfriend and claims to be happy with him? Whiskey, porn, video-games, friends, metal-music, and exercise. And, most importantly, by approaching loads more women. It hurts a lot more when you have no options. It hurts to see them together... My friends tell me she will regret leaving me someday and karma always strikes back. Do all women eventually regret leaving their man for someone else? Women only regret missing out on a good opportunity. Want her to regret losing you? Become a better man. Edit: forgot to mention to go no-contact: just seems obvious. Cut her out of your life completely. Edited February 12, 2016 by Jabron1 1
Ami1uwant Posted February 12, 2016 Posted February 12, 2016 I know some of you here may remember me and don't really like me. And yes this is about the same girl I wrote about here before. But that's besides the point. How do I get over a girl I loved who has a new boyfriend and claims to be happy with him? It hurts to see them together... My friends tell me she will regret leaving me someday and karma always strikes back. Do all women eventually regret leaving their man for someone else? I don't recall your postings....... In general....regret may depend on why the relationship ended. If it was ended for the wrong reasons, was it a Rush to judgement, was she not ready for something serious/settling down. I have sometimes wondered about what Might have happen if.....scenarios. As others have said...it's best to avoid this ex for sometime and sears the yourself from her.
joseb Posted February 12, 2016 Posted February 12, 2016 But that's besides the point. How do I get over a girl I loved who has a new boyfriend and claims to be happy with him? It hurts to see them together... My friends tell me she will regret leaving me someday and karma always strikes back. Do all women eventually regret leaving their man for someone else? It hurts to see them together... Then do what you can so that you don't see them together. My friends tell me she will regret leaving me someday Unlikely. They are saying this "to be nice" but the truth is, this kind of thinking only drags out the process of getting over someone. Follow No Contact (no social media, no mention of her with friends) and try to throw yourself into other things in your life. 2
d0nnivain Posted February 12, 2016 Posted February 12, 2016 . Do all women eventually regret leaving their man for someone else? Time heals all wounds. Not really but the pain will be less acute. No all women don't do anything. Just like all men don't do anything. Generalizations are useless. When I look back on the guys I dated, while they were mostly good people I thank God I didn't marry them. They just weren't right for me long term. Acceptance is the 1st key to healing. You need to know it's over & believe me if she is with another guy, it's over. Letting go is another key. Stop even dreaming that she'll come back. Going backwards in life is never good. You just have to let her go. Self soothing helps too. Surround yourself with positive upbeat people. Do things that make you happy. Reinventing yourself helps too. Exercise. Rearrange your living space. Learn a new skill or hobby. Enjoy life! 2
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