RonnieH Posted February 11, 2016 Posted February 11, 2016 It's like this.. Say someone was married and their partner had been previously married and that caused ALL KINDS of problems with the marriage they were both currently in. So many problems that it lead to divorce. So, now they date and they have decided it they ever get married again it absolutely would not be with someone with the same kind of baggage. They find someone ten years later, and that person says they had never been married before and they both get a long great and it seem to be awesome so they get married then 3 years later they find out their partner had indeed been married before and now that old relationship is causing problems with the marriage. How do you deal with that? Especially with being lied to about never having been married before?
PegNosePete Posted February 11, 2016 Posted February 11, 2016 Why would a previous marriage cause problems in the current one? And why weren't these problems evident before remarrying? If it happens twice then I would say look at the common denominator. But it's a bit of a strange one: to get remarried after a divorce can be quite complicated, you would have to show your divorce paperwork which would make it pretty difficult to hide from your new fiance. The lying however, is another issue. That would have to be dealt with separately and you would need to discuss the reasons why the lie was told, what else is being lied about, etc. It would depend on the situation and circumstances, and can't be answered in a such generic sense as you've asked.
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