justanickname Posted February 11, 2016 Posted February 11, 2016 Hello, I am not sure if this topic is suitable to Dating or elsewhere, but since it partly links, I post here. Sorry in advance if Im wrong. Anyway, yesterday I had a language exchange with a guy. The meet up turns out we have a lots in common, same concerns about things, and I felt I like him a lot. But it is not really the thing here. Since we discussed about a job opprtunity as well, because somehow he is recruiting someone and I also interested in the project he is doing. During the meet up, he mentioned of giving me his professional email and some more info about the project, but by the end of the talk, none of us mentioned about that. I thought at the beginning, because we have each other's number, he could text me his email and more details later. However, when I came back home, I sent him a msg, saying I was glad to meet and talk to him, but there has no reply or any respond from him. Tomorrow I will make a short trip around my city and I would like to ask him join, because actually he works in another city, and this is the time for our national holidays so we both have days off. I know he doesnt have any plan yet, but his silence makes me wonder. I do like him and I am serious about the job opprtunity, but well, in this situation I am not sure how he thinks. Any thoughts are welcome. Thanks.
brokengirl85 Posted February 11, 2016 Posted February 11, 2016 I don't think it's a good idea. He doesn't seem interested at all. He riding even reply to your text, what other confirmation do you want?
Author justanickname Posted February 11, 2016 Author Posted February 11, 2016 Yeah I thought so, but he has just replied. I dont think I should send him a msg immediately, but I still think I want to know more about him and his project. In the case, a text asking his professional email as he mentioned is worth to try?
red.velvet Posted February 11, 2016 Posted February 11, 2016 I'm curious as to what he has said in his reply. He doesn't seem interested. But what did he say in his reply?
Author justanickname Posted February 11, 2016 Author Posted February 11, 2016 Just general as mine. "thank you and best wishes". Kind of
red.velvet Posted February 11, 2016 Posted February 11, 2016 Just general as mine. "thank you and best wishes". Kind of My opinion, he is definitely not interested. I wouldn't contact him again.
Author justanickname Posted February 11, 2016 Author Posted February 11, 2016 I tested the water anyway. It is hard to find someone that have quite same vision on things. I told him I was serious about things related to the work and his project, and adked him if he was serious. He replied shortly, saying it was serious and he would let me know more soon. So, I guess all I should do is waiting and no expectation now.
joseb Posted February 11, 2016 Posted February 11, 2016 If you are serious about the project then focus on that I agree. Does not sound like he is at all interested in you romantically. don't mess up the business side by going there.
Zippy2000 Posted February 11, 2016 Posted February 11, 2016 Yeah I thought so, but he has just replied. I dont think I should send him a msg immediately, but I still think I want to know more about him and his project. In the case, a text asking his professional email as he mentioned is worth to try? I disagree with this. If you ask for his "professional email" then that sounds like to me its business only. Some people dont mix business with pleasure. You should be more upfront what your intentions are. Your asking for his professional email which means and you are speaking to a guy. It sends me a message that there nothing to it but just business. Just ask him out for drinks.
Author justanickname Posted February 11, 2016 Author Posted February 11, 2016 Well, I didnt ask for his professional email, just asked if he was serious when talking about recruitment. I have never met anyone that I felt connected right at the beginning like him, but I am aware of business stuff. I am serious about it. I will wait for his info, and if you guys are curious, I guess I can update about this. I do hope it is worthy to try. I have never thought I could ever fall for someone that easily. But this is a bit complicated since it links with work, job opportunity as well...
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