chaddercheese Posted February 10, 2016 Posted February 10, 2016 Just something i've picked up, every girl ive met or been with ended up just like their parents. No matter how decent they first appear, as they get closer to you they just turn into their parents. Partner 1: mom married young, divorced young to experience more of the world(men). ... she left citing she wants to sleep with at least 20 more guys before she gets to old. Partner 2: dad was a chronic liar and vanished with affairees ... she vanished with what turned out to be another bf Partner 3: her mom left the guy she loved for another man and then regretted it, got pregnant and stayed with the guy hating him ... she left me for another guy stating she didnt know what she wanted and wanted to experience more, realises she hated him and comes begging me back Partner 4: her dad cheated on the mom with multiple partners and the mom was a whipping horse allowing the dad to come over when he wants and have 2 other partners he was having affairs with ... she cheated with multiple guys and was a complete pushover not saying no to anyone Partner 5: her dad was an alcoholic and her mom didnt want to grow old so would party and get with different men every night ... she would try and go out as much as she could because "she was young" and i found out she was getting with different guys each time Partner 6: her mom got pregnant young and fell in love with the guy but then he tried to bomb their house and kill them ... she falls in love straight away but then becomes distant after a period when you get close Partner 7: her dad was having a tonne of affairs and was a complete scammer ... she thought i was wealthy so immediately hooked on to me, when she found out i wasnt supremely rich she vanished and i found out she already had a partner. Partner 8: the mom was a crazy jealous woman who goes mad at the dad for even spending time with his mother and the dad was quiet grouchy who would snap at everything ... she was super jealous and would accuse me of being unloyal for having girls as friends on facebook even and would try and turn anything into me cheating, such as talking about (guy) friends etc My advice here i guess, no matter how much **** your partner will say about whats wrong with their parents, they are the ones they grew up watching and learning from about how normal relationships act. They will always become a clone of their parents.
d0nnivain Posted February 10, 2016 Posted February 10, 2016 All people to some extent emulate those around them. It's not limited to one gender. If asked, people will say you are like your parents. 4
basil67 Posted February 10, 2016 Posted February 10, 2016 And this surprises you because?? Our parents are our role models - they show us what is acceptable behaviour. Frankly, I'd be leery about dating a man who's parents were abusive to each other. My husband is his father all over again. The gentleness, the stubbornness and being very good with people. Same, Same.
AMJ Posted February 10, 2016 Posted February 10, 2016 So....what are your parents like, Mr. Perfect? 3
Emilia Posted February 10, 2016 Posted February 10, 2016 It seems you don't know how to pick normal people. We are whom we date, in case you didn't know.
ExpatInItaly Posted February 10, 2016 Posted February 10, 2016 It seems you don't know how to pick normal people. We are whom we date, in case you didn't know. This. OP, the common denominator is you. Based on your other threads about your current girlfriend and all the nonsense there, it's safe to say you have a pattern.
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