Mjm1014 Posted February 9, 2016 Posted February 9, 2016 I've been talking to a girl for a few weeks and am really starting to like her. Up until about 2-3 days ago we talked 24/7 to the point it was prob unhealthy we literally would text all day and talk on the phone for hours. We both seemed so excited where things were going. For the past 2-3 days I've noticed she's become really short with her text messages though, and doesn't really try holding a conversation..when I stop talking to her though she will text me and ask what I'm up to or get snippy if I take too long to return her texts...there's no substance in the conversation anymore though. I try keeping the conversations going but then she starts replying with yes/no answers or "cool"...I asked her what her deal was yesterday and she blammed it on her period and said she is just moody. So I'm not sure what to do. I back off, I can tell she gets upset, yet she isn't really putting herself out there like she use to. FYI she deleted me off Facebook/snapchat the other day and said she couldn't talk to me anymore. I said "okay fine" and two hours later she calls me crying that she is scared she's falling for me, she's been hurt bad in the past, and doesn't feel adequate for me. Ever since then things seem fine then very off, then back on...
smackie9 Posted February 9, 2016 Posted February 9, 2016 Obviously she isn't emotionally ready to be in a relationship. Back off and let her initiate conversation. The less available you are the more desirable. 2
truth_seeker Posted February 9, 2016 Posted February 9, 2016 FYI she deleted me off Facebook/snapchat the other day and said she couldn't talk to me anymore. I said "okay fine" and two hours later she calls me crying that she is scared she's falling for me, she's been hurt bad in the past, and doesn't feel adequate for me. Ever since then things seem fine then very off, then back on... Bro, she's a head case. Find someone who is a bit more stable. 1
Robratory Posted February 9, 2016 Posted February 9, 2016 FYI she deleted me off Facebook/snapchat the other day and said she couldn't talk to me anymore. I said "okay fine" and two hours later she calls me crying that she is scared she's falling for me, she's been hurt bad in the past, and doesn't feel adequate for me. Ever since then things seem fine then very off, then back on... She has emotional issues. Pity her, but get the hell away from her. Life's too short for drama.
ExpatInItaly Posted February 9, 2016 Posted February 9, 2016 Don't bother with her. It sounds like you've never even met her - correct? Too much drama.
Author Mjm1014 Posted February 9, 2016 Author Posted February 9, 2016 Thanks for the responses. Sorry guess it was a vent post more than anything. Yeah we met before..we had a huge crush on eachother during a summer class back in college about 10 years ago and recently reconnected. She lives in a different state now and will be moving back in a few months so phone is all we have. It's just super hot and cold the past few days so idk...I need to run, you're right. Thanks everyone.
Michelle ma Belle Posted February 9, 2016 Posted February 9, 2016 Sweet Jesus. I know PMS is a real thing but I'm so sick and tired of girls using it as some blanket excuse and crutch for every mood swing they have. This is why it has the bad rap is has. Anyone whose mood changes as often as a traffic light is unstable NOT PMSing. Give me a break. Run. 4
introverted1 Posted February 9, 2016 Posted February 9, 2016 Is this the same girl you keep posting about? The one who's still involved with her so-called "ex"? If so, she's got many more issues than having her period. Sorry, OP. I think you should take a pass on this one.
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