He's "fading"...

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It won't work till it does. It cannot work with every guy you meet, and not every man will fall for you.

 

Sometimes we have a great first date and then men change their mind, sometimes they change their mind after 1-2-3-4- dates. Nothing we can do about it.

 

You had a great online connection for 2 months before meeting. That's in the virtual world. Avoid doing that. When you make contact with someone meet them right away, this avoid building up attachment with someone you've never met. All of those things you're sharing before meeting doesn't count. Meeting face to face brings the clock back to zero.

 

I think his interest is luckywarm but he doesn't have the heart to tell you. He's opting for slowly fading.

 

But its so weird though because when he does reply, he writes a whole paragraph. Like today he apologized to me telling me that he went to bed at 8pm last night and couldn't reply to my texts.

 

So I guess II'm confused. I really did expected more and we making plans to go out for burgers but he just seems so busy thst he doesnt even have time to text me?

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And he works all day and nite today? And all day and night tomorrow?

 

It doesn't change anything that he writes paragrahs, he prob does that with every body.

 

Hon, he's flaking on you and using work as an excuse. When a man likes a lady he always find time to contact her and see her.

 

You really think he can't get away for a 1 hr lunch with you? Or coffee at 18h? About breakfast saturday or sunday? See how he is not making any efforts to see you?

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I was kinda joking.

 

Look, there's no urgency about this guy, whatsoever. I'm surprised that you aren't completely fed up with him.

 

You need to create that urgency by being less available. You need to be the one fading here - from a guy who's wasting your time.

 

Yes I know you were joking.

 

And yes, I am fading. Alot of other guys that I text actuallu respond faster than he does.