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Has my boyfriend cheated?


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Hey everybody,

 

The last couple of weeks my partner and I have been fighting a lot about nothing to major. But it almost caused us to break up(what he was considering) he said we have been spending too much time together, he was more snappy and had a shorter fuse, I would get jealous because women at his work were being disrespectful to our relationship by making sexual advances to him(he told me this as he has always been honest about that stuff) for a while I thought he hated me, he said on one of the nights I came back late because I was helping my girlfriend clean he house that he thought I might be with another guy trying to get over him. The last week I've backed off and made more effort with my girlfriends because he wanted to hang out with his friends on Saturday during the day which is perfectly fine. I didnt hear from him all Saturday because his phone isn't working. He came home Saturday at 7pm and things seemed fine then he started picking at me and I started to cry saying I am trying so hard with him and I didn't want to fight anymore.

He said he loves me and that he is sorry. He went to work not long after and we were fine. On Sunday he hung out with his friends again as I had made plans with my girlfriend a couple days earlier. He came home at 7 again and everything was fine he cooked us a nice dinner. But the last few days something has not seemed right after we slept together on Sunday he said he could never had sex with somebody else & that he wouldn't want anybody else seeing me naked even though 4 days earlier he said he thought I might be with another guy getting over him and he wouldn't have cared if it was making me happy.

He also mentioned on Sunday that he was sorry(whilst drunk) for being such a jerk and it was his fault that we have been fighting & that he loves me more than ever. He has been so sweet the last couple of days to me.

My main concern is I am just paranoid or do you think my boyfriend might have cheated on me? I have never not trusted my boyfriend in the past but can't help but feel like something has happened to make him change his mind about breaking up like sleeping with another girl.

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Cheating is a hit or miss. It takes two to tango. Relax. Stop being paranoid.

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