strach Posted February 7, 2016 Posted February 7, 2016 So by some miracle, at a party last night I managed to impress a girl enough for her to get my number through our mutual friends despite me being rather shy. She was noticeably flirty the whole night but I thought she was like that with everyone/may have had a little too much to drink. But she messaged me today saying she was sad I didn't come to Mcdonalds with her and her friends (was late and had to be up early) so she appears to be into me. Kind of feel in uncharted territory. Had a gf a year ago for a short bit but was with someone i'd known for 4 years so im not very experienced. While its awesome that shes into me, I dont actually know her that well and feel weird flirting back when im not sure whether shes someone id date yet. I guess what im wondering is where do i take it from here. Do I flirt back, do I try to get to know her better by messaging her, do I jump right in and ask for a date and get to know her better via a date? I'm not fully sure what she is looking for either. Any advice would be appreciated, I'm 22 and were in 2nd year University if anyone's curious. Thanks!
doeblin Posted February 7, 2016 Posted February 7, 2016 Chat with her a little, but only a little. Then ask her out for a coffee or something. Specific time/place/activity. Simples. Vis-a-vis communication is so much better than texting. Then you'll see what's what. I presume you are somewhat into her, otherwise you wouldn't have made this thread.
Author strach Posted February 8, 2016 Author Posted February 8, 2016 Chat with her a little, but only a little. Then ask her out for a coffee or something. Specific time/place/activity. Simples. Vis-a-vis communication is so much better than texting. Then you'll see what's what. I presume you are somewhat into her, otherwise you wouldn't have made this thread. Yeah, she seems fun and I think shes pretty so I am interested, just want to know more about her rather than dive in head first. Thanks for the advice
doeblin Posted February 8, 2016 Posted February 8, 2016 Yeah, she seems fun and I think shes pretty so I am interested, just want to know more about her rather than dive in head first. Thanks for the advice The very reason you ask someone out for a date is to get to know her more.
preraph Posted February 8, 2016 Posted February 8, 2016 Text her back and say "Let's go get a pizza Friday at (name of Pizza place). Simple. That's it. When she says yes, text back and say "7 ok? I'll come get you" (or however you want to meet up). It's that simple. She likes you. You don't have to flirt. Just ask her out and think of some questions to keep her talking before you go, not yes-or-no questions, but open-ended ones, like "How long have you known all those girls you were with the other night?" or "What kind of stuff do you like to go do?" Do NOT just text her without asking her out. You'll end up friendzoned. Ask her out. 2
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