Mjm1014 Posted February 7, 2016 Posted February 7, 2016 I've been talking to a girl for the past few weeks, and overall things have been going well. She was an old crush from way back and now lives out of state, but will be moving back to my hometown in a few months. Anyways we've been texting and talking on the phone constantly, and I can tell she really likes me. Yesterday, mid conversation she said "g2g, ttyl" and I didn't hear from her for a few hours. I went on Facebook and snapchat and she deleted me and was shocked. When I asked her if I said something to offend her, she said no, and said she can't talk to me anymore...I said "okay well good luck" and left it at that. Late last night she sent me a huge text message how she basically is falling for me, and doesn't open up well to people, how hard her life has been, and how bad her relationship history is. She told me she still lives with her ex and it's horrible-she never told me that before, and said she was scared to tell me. I called her and she was crying and said she doesn't feel like she will ever measure up to the girl I deserve, and feels inadequate, and is super depressed. We talked on the phone for 2 hours and finally got her to laugh a little, and we are finally talking again today like things never happened. She's really opened up to me I feel like since then. She added me on snapchat right away after our conversation last night, but for some reason, won't add me back on Facebook. I've asked her twice thinking she would, but she changes the subject. Basically I feel like something is "off" considering how much we used Facebook to communicate and how often she's on there. I feel like maybe she's trying to hide me from someone all of a sudden. Not sure if I should bring this up or let it go-for now. She seemed sincere with her explanation on the phone and told me really private things that I don't really want to bring up on here. She's s snap chatting and texting me while I write this actually, but this whole Facebook thing is bugging me. It's very odd...especially delete me and cut contact so fast yesterday. Thoughts?
hippychick3 Posted February 7, 2016 Posted February 7, 2016 She probably won't add you back on FB because she's still involved with her "ex". Do you really like drama that much? Because that is exactly what you're signing up for now. 6
Author Mjm1014 Posted February 7, 2016 Author Posted February 7, 2016 I agree. I'm just not sure what to do...do I bring it up with her?
hippychick3 Posted February 7, 2016 Posted February 7, 2016 I agree. I'm just not sure what to do...do I bring it up with her? Walk...or better yet, run as fast as you can in the opposite direction. Look for normal girls not living with exes and not emotional basket cases. There are plenty of normal unattached girls out there. Just move on. 5
joseb Posted February 7, 2016 Posted February 7, 2016 Usually when people end up in a disastrous drama filled relationship they don't get such an obvious warning early on. Cut your losses now. 1
xcupid Posted February 7, 2016 Posted February 7, 2016 If hippychick hasn't made it clear enough, you delete this woman and look for someone else. You're playing with fire here and you'll get burned.
smackie9 Posted February 7, 2016 Posted February 7, 2016 Her feelings for you are false.....she is emotionally attached as an escape from her crappy situation.....in all honesty she "thinks" she has fallen for you, but all you are is a rebound guy. I agree with the others, she is unstable, and nothing good could possibly come from this.
Fleur de cactus Posted February 7, 2016 Posted February 7, 2016 Just run. She is playing you and you know that. Follow your gut. She does not love you. She has a lover she is staying with. I don't understand why you want a relationship with someone who dumped you without any explanation and who has a lover she calls an ex? Work on your self-esteem and self-worth, find a girl who is free and does not play games.
Author Mjm1014 Posted February 8, 2016 Author Posted February 8, 2016 Thanks for the responses! I'm still not sure what I'm going to do, but I know what I SHOULD do lol
coolheadal Posted February 8, 2016 Posted February 8, 2016 I've been in one like this on FB also they'll never do what you want. Mostly tease you (they don't know what they want) Living with the Ex -RED FLAG! Why put up with this girl move on and find someone who wants the world to know your with her and doesn't hide you like she's doing now.
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