anonymousbear00101100 Posted February 7, 2016 Posted February 7, 2016 Basically, I found myself grinding with this girl my friend has been seeing at a party last night. They had even been on a date earlier that night. When I realized this, I stopped dancing with her. Throughout the night I saw her with a bunch of other guys, grinding and making out. I didn't see her leave, so I'm not sure if she left with a guy or not. To make things even weirder, before she and my friend started dating, I had danced and made out with her at a different party. My friend knows and is okay with that, as long as it didn't happen again. Now I'm stuck with a moral dilemma. Should I tell my friend what the girl he wants to be exclusive with is doing at parties? Should I tell him that I danced with her again or just say I saw her with a bunch of dudes? Or should I just leave it alone because it really isn't any of my business anyways?
preraph Posted February 7, 2016 Posted February 7, 2016 I wouldn't say anything specific, other than that she was out at a party you were at. He has every reason to be mad at you now, so if he asks her about it, she's liable to unload on him, so actually silence is probably the best thing. He'll find out soon enough she's out -- and doesn't sound like they are in a committed relationship anyway.
Popsicle Posted February 7, 2016 Posted February 7, 2016 Grinding? You mean like while dancing? Or dry-humping on the couch?
Popsicle Posted February 7, 2016 Posted February 7, 2016 Either way, yes, I would casually mention it to him. And, don't be surprised if it doesn't make a bit of difference.
road Posted February 8, 2016 Posted February 8, 2016 Well if you didn't cheat on your friend a 2nd time with his GF it would be a must tell your friend what you saw. Now that you did it a 2nd time he will end your friendship once you tell him. Though he needs the truth to protect himself from is evil GF and his backstabbing friend.
hasaquestion Posted February 8, 2016 Posted February 8, 2016 Now I'm stuck with a moral dilemma. Should I tell my friend what the girl he wants to be exclusive with is doing at parties? Should I tell him that I danced with her again or just say I saw her with a bunch of dudes? Or should I just leave it alone because it really isn't any of my business anyways? IMO, this depends very strongly on the nature of your friendship. This guy sounds like more of an acquaintance or a friend of convenience than a true friend. If this guy has transcended the status of mere friend to brother, you tell him. If not, you don't.
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