Lyric Posted February 7, 2016 Posted February 7, 2016 Two days ago I was approached by a guy who told me that he thought I was cute. We chatted for a few minutes and he seemed nice, so when he asked me to exchange numbers, I agreed. He gave me his number and I rang him, so he would have mine to. He has not contacted me since then and I am wary of contacting him because he was the one who approached me, so I think that if he is still interested, he will message me. It has happened to me before that someone chat me up and then we exchanged numbers and after one or two texts I never heard from him again. Which makes me a bit worried that there is something about the way I act that makes these guys immediately lose interest after speaking to me for a few minutes. I will probably wait a few days and if I don't hear from him I will forget about it and delete his number. Or would you in that situation simply contact the other person?
Erdbeere Posted February 7, 2016 Posted February 7, 2016 Two days ago I was approached by a guy who told me that he thought I was cute. We chatted for a few minutes and he seemed nice, so when he asked me to exchange numbers, I agreed. He gave me his number and I rang him, so he would have mine to. He has not contacted me since then and I am wary of contacting him because he was the one who approached me, so I think that if he is still interested, he will message me. It has happened to me before that someone chat me up and then we exchanged numbers and after one or two texts I never heard from him again. Which makes me a bit worried that there is something about the way I act that makes these guys immediately lose interest after speaking to me for a few minutes. I will probably wait a few days and if I don't hear from him I will forget about it and delete his number. Or would you in that situation simply contact the other person? I get approached by men giving me their number a lot. If I'm interested, I give them mine immediately via a message through a chat application. I consider that just giving them my number, not the start of anything. I reckon a week is as long as I'd remain hopeful that they may make contact. Some people will just get their fix from collecting numbers. Others are genuine.
AMJ Posted February 7, 2016 Posted February 7, 2016 This is just classic. "why hasn't he called?" is such a massive issue, I think there are entire books written about it. He's busy, he's dating three other women, he's too scared to call you back, maybe they're put off because you seem to eager..or maybe you seem uninterested. This territory is like, dating purgatory. Women sit there and ponder and waste so much valuable time obsessing over why the guy doesn't call. As soon as you become the woman who stops caring about whether or not they call, they start calling you.
d0nnivain Posted February 7, 2016 Posted February 7, 2016 I wouldn't chase. I'd chalk it up to just one of those things & move on.
GR4 Posted February 7, 2016 Posted February 7, 2016 If you like him why not call him yourself? Am I missing something here? What have you got to lose?
Author Lyric Posted February 7, 2016 Author Posted February 7, 2016 I don't know him well enough to decide whether I'm interested or not. I need a lot more than a ten minute conversation to determine that. I suppose I will just see if anything happens and if not, at least I know that apparently my new hairstyle does not look too bad.
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