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Emma1234567890

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Hey all...

Heres my story. Im seriously looking for help.

Been thru a divorce last year. Been about a year. The marriage lasted 5 years. It was an abusive relationship.

Then while i was coping,an ex colleague started texting. He gotmto know i was single. Hes shy. Always been that way.

Anyways we were good friends. Live in diff cities so never got a chance to meet. His day began n ended with texting me. He dropped hints about liking me. So after about 4 minths i started taking interest in him. And he seemed to have backed off. Doesnt plan on meeting. Doesnt text that much. Isnt there the way he used to be. The problem is that i had got so close and so used to him that getting thru a day is tough. Sometimes i see him online on whatsapp and its not me hes chatting with so could be that hes found someone? Im sorry if i sound like a stalker but i truly miss him alot. Alot.alot.

Sometimes i check my phone every 3 minutes to see if hes said something.

Other times i have this unsettling uneasy feeling that he just doesnt text the same way anymore. And ive been so upset over this lately i swear its killing me. The way he was there for me even my husband hasnt morally supported me that way ever. N im getting sick of myself now. Looking at the phone always checking on him. Always trying to find ways to talk to him. He does text me but not the same at all. He says hes single but who knows. I just want myself to forget him seriously. I think i really do like him alot but i want my feelings to end. Please help. Im losing my value. Like completely.

Jersey born raised Established Member

Jersey born raised

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Try honesty. Send a note saying hi, find I am missing you, always found your support wonderful, but now I realize perhaps that is an understatement. How are you ? Would enjoy talking soon.

 

If he responds focus on questions about him. What does he enjoy? Pick a piece of good advise and ask how he learned about it, etc, in short draw him out.

 

You do need to guard against players. You are easy pickings right now. So baby steps.

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