superfabulous Posted June 9, 2005 Posted June 9, 2005 write a letter to Mike (an ex-lover...who blew me off after he told me he was enjoying me way to much and was afraid..I think he has drinking or pot smoking problem as well).I want to tell it like it is and I can't do it in person for a few reasons...the guy is either on a binge or is flat out ignoring me- ie: has not called me back in 3 weeks after a year long on-off love affair. Its not hate mail, its share mail. I will ad, back in high school and my early 20's I recall lots of letter floating around after breakups and to make up...I guess I am kind of looking for that to some extent, but I swear it I wont regret expressing how i feel. ( I'm only 32) Would you do it or not? I just lost a loved one and now him! I feel like I need to get it out and I want him to either read it or hear it and I can't demand he hears me out if he is ignoring my calls ( no no i wont keep calling him). So before I send it out gimme your best advice. I am not sure he can even read!( thats a joke)I need some good advice here. thanks for your advice in advance P.S. Don't hurt me more than I am hurting... thanks, ME
HotCaliGirl Posted June 9, 2005 Posted June 9, 2005 Why don't you write the letter expressing everything you feel, then every day go back to it and edit it so that you don't include anything you'll regret sending, then still wait about a week and if you still feel like you really want to send it, then send it, because once you do you can't take it back and you might regret it. In the meantme just the writing process of getting it out of your system will have made you feel better anyways. I don't want to hurt you more than you're hurting, but if he was really enjoying you way too much, he would not be ignoring you!!! Don't let him fool you with that weak excuse.
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