Deadmeat Posted February 6, 2016 Posted February 6, 2016 Hi all, My friends and I were talking about a recent experience regarding a date I managed to get and needed your input. Long story short 3 weeks ago I managed to get a servers phone number at a restaurant I was eating at. Initially I asked her out for coffee right away but she felt she still needed to get to know me so we chatted over the phone. Over the course of 3 weeks I asked her out about 3 times eand each time there was some excuse as to why she couldn't go. However, I remained persistent as it did not really bother me much and she initiated conversation a lot of the time. Today, we were in a text conversation and I asked her out again which she agreed to have drinks with me on Saturday (Feb 13) one week away. I told my friends about the situation and they felt that the date was planned too far away which would give her enough time to find a reason to back out. They suggest that I try to reschedule for this Saturday instead under the premise that next Saturday is too close to Valentines Day. I on the other hand view that as perfect timing as she will be in a perfect mood as it is close to V Day. What are your thoughts and experiences?
SugarLips72 Posted February 6, 2016 Posted February 6, 2016 I get the feeling she is not that interested. If I like a guy I will find a way to go out with him at least once the first 3 times he asks or suggest another night. If she cancels this date then delete her number and move on. I would not stop doing whatever your doing and wait around for her.
d0nnivain Posted February 6, 2016 Posted February 6, 2016 My initial thought was she is using you as a back-up plan. Thanks to you she now has a Saturday night Valentine's Date. She isn't exactly chomping at the bit to go out with you but she figures this may be the best offer she gets so as not to sit home alone that weekend. Don't emotionally or financially invest too much in this until her behavior becomes warmer to the idea of dating you. 1
Author Deadmeat Posted February 6, 2016 Author Posted February 6, 2016 Thanks for the reply guys. To clarify, I am not one to take things seriously and I'm pretty light hearted during my conversations with her. So when she kept giving me excuses I just brushed it off and continued to flirt. Like I said she would always initiate conversation with me which I interpreted as interest. Regardless, I've decided to take your advice into account and will not invest too much into this. Funny thing is we still continue to text...
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