Kshamz Posted June 9, 2005 Posted June 9, 2005 [font=arial][/font][color=violet][/color] what do i do?? i think my boy friend is cheating on me .. but i dont want to accuse him cuz i no he'll get pissed at me. Hes always talking to girls on the phone behind my back ? i dont no what they talk about on the fone ? and i no he would lie about it ..he told me i have nothing to worry about but i think i just need to chill out or maybe hes chating on me .. i have no idea.. and it seems like he has somehting better to do.. like sleep.eat.or just sit around and play his guitar.. Once i saw that he called this girl after school one day and he told me he was sleeping.. and he called her like 5 times.. he said he stopped calling her but im sure he just deleted her # from his phone>??? i dont no what to do please help mee!!!!!!!!!!!!
Marshbear Posted June 9, 2005 Posted June 9, 2005 Even if he isn't cheating on you he is disrespecting you. Do you really want to put up with this behavior? You sound like your afraid of him. Two very good reasons to get out and away from him. Run...Run...Run...
Author Kshamz Posted June 9, 2005 Author Posted June 9, 2005 we've been in a relationship for almost a year.. the 11 of june.. and he says he loves me so much and he never wants to loose me.. i like whut ur saying.. howd u no i was scared!!ur goood!! i dont understand why tho he has to talk to girls.. one time he planned on doin another girl.. i forgave him the stupid ass i am .. i still think about it all the time and when i try and talk to him about it he gets pissed? -kel
newbby Posted June 9, 2005 Posted June 9, 2005 you are worth more than this sweetiepie, men are pretty lazy, they will mostly treat you how they can get away with. therefore it is always up to the woman to decide how she wants to be treated and act accordingly. if you can get into this habit now, it will save you a lot of heartache in the future. no matter how much it hurts you have to walk away from this guy. if he truly loves you he will prove it in actions not words. if you are scared of him, then get away from him whatever he says or does, a good loving relationship should be based on mutual respect and trust. just walking away from this will make you feel stronger and more in control of your own life, which you are, and you will never have to put up with any cr@p again. ((strength with you))
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