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Boundaries.. Am I wrong?


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If a girl I'm seeing says she wants to be friends and see where things go and has cooked cleaned and did lots of things for me.. Wants to chill at my house when I'm not there.. Do i have any grounds of validation for not wanting her there when I'm not? I trust her but its not her place its mine

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If a girl I'm seeing says she wants to be friends and see where things go and has cooked cleaned and did lots of things for me.. Wants to chill at my house when I'm not there.. Do i have any grounds of validation for not wanting her there when I'm not? I trust her but its not her place its mine

 

If you don't want her there, you can tell her that. Just because she's doing all these things for you, it doesn't entitle her to anything. She isn't even your girlfriend yet apparently. She's saying she's ok with just being friends for now and really wants more so she is trying to "buy" more so it happens more quickly . . .

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This post sounds like a joke....she's not your girlfriend. Even if she was she doesn't have a "right" to hang out at your place when you're not there.

 

If you don't want her there that's it. Basta. If she can't accept that she's obviously a nutjob and you need to get rid of her FAST.

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