rachb21994 Posted February 4, 2016 Posted February 4, 2016 I'm sorry, but I just need to rant. >.> I only cried for a few hours yesterday which I found strange. I was crying for days after my first relationship ended, and that was a nightmare as well. We broke up at around 6:00. I've always been suspicious about him. As per usual, I didn't listen to my gut instinct. All he ever did was use me for sexual encounters. First date was okay, except I had to pay. He only kissed me and I thought everything was too good to be true. Oh, how right I was. Second date turned sexual, so of course I got suspicious afterwards. But he was always saying, "I did it all out of love" which I knew was complete bullcrap. He clearly saw I was uncomfortable with it all, yet continued anyway. After that second date, that's when all the arguments started happening because I was always questioning his motives. He was extremely manipulative, a liar, and told me to change the way I think otherwise "I'd get nowhere in life". I fell for him hard, but as always, my love was taken for granted and I was made to feel worthless. He said he wanted a serious relationship with somebody and to be with them for life. Ha. I really hate it when guys lie to you about that. Why can't they just be upfront at the start and say something like, "I just want sexual encounters and nothing more"? Why do they have to string you along and give you false hope? The annoying thing is, he thinks he's the innocent one and I can bet his family is calling me every name under the sun right now because of all the one-sided crap he's telling them. Honestly, I'm never going to find anybody that genuinely loves me. I'm always going to be miserable in life. Shame really.
PegNosePete Posted February 4, 2016 Posted February 4, 2016 He was extremely manipulative, a liar, and told me to change the way I think otherwise "I'd get nowhere in life". I fell for him hard Really?!?! How can you fall for someone like that? I hope you've learned from this, if anyone treats you like that again, tell them to take a long walk off a short pier. Honestly, I'm never going to find anybody that genuinely loves me. I'm always going to be miserable in life. Shame really. If you keep accepting people who treat you like crap, then yeah! Don't accept that! Wait until you find a nice guy who treats you right. 1
RySant Posted February 4, 2016 Posted February 4, 2016 Honestly, I'm never going to find anybody that genuinely loves me. I'm always going to be miserable in life. Shame really. If you close yourself to people after this, you'll definitely end up being alone. But my question is, since you've already started this dating stuff, do you really want him to be the last person you've dated? A lying, manipulative a-hole? I mean, c'mon, make some good memories and bury him in the past. If you were used for sex for example, consider it that you are phsyically good-looking ENOUGH for you to attract good and honest people. Just choose wisely next time
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