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He contacted me again & my response even shocked me


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Tuesday night after all that has happened ( again) he called from

A blocked a number four times - I did answer - he asked me how are you I'm

Just calling to see if you're okay , if you went to therapy - I said what is it yo want ? Nothing I do is any of your business and to please leave me alone . I hung up he kept calling back and I didn't answer - he's blocked so thankfully can't see any messages

 

I just don't understand why he seeks the Need to call , to act like he cares so much . Honestly I'm

Shocked how I handled it . My track record isn't good and usually I cry and listen .

 

I think he is floored . I haven't heard from him since .

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Posted (edited)

Well done! You did great.

 

Keep a whistle near you, the football referee type. Next time he calls from an unknown number, as soon as you realize it's him, blow the whistle down the phone at him for a full 5 seconds, then hang up. That will make him think twice about calling again.

 

Alternatively as soon as you realize it's him, put the call on mute, place the phone on a table, and let him talk talk talk (and pay for the privilege) until he figures out you're not even listening and hangs up.

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Posted

Well done.

 

See its easier when you just get on and do it!

 

Good on you for sticking up for yourself!!!

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