StormRider Posted February 4, 2016 Posted February 4, 2016 (edited) A week ago her kid was being a massive misbehaving irritating prick...all day eventually by afternoon after a couple more incidents upon the other undisciplined incidents i lost my temper verbally exploded and told her that she tolerates way too much bad behavior and her boy is becoming a little monster. Made a scene, then i eventually simply just left & drove away. Ever since ive simply followed No contact, 5 days now in fact, but now the anger has passed, am missing her heavily, like the usual cocaine style withdrawals you get from break ups is this a break up or just a massive fight? do i continue NC or is there something im being stubbornly blind about where things could actually possibly be corrected from here. lol thanks for any direction Edited February 4, 2016 by StormRider
d0nnivain Posted February 4, 2016 Posted February 4, 2016 Your reaction to a child's misbehavior would make me reconsider whether I wanted you in my life. Your application of the silent treatment after that would lead me to conclude we were broken up. Perhaps if you apologized that day this could be salvageable but not now. That said, it's amazing what flowers can get you out of. If you want to try call your nearest florist & write a heartfelt apology. Then talk about where you think appropriate boundaries for the child are but understand as his parent, hers is the only opinion that matters.
TheArtist Posted February 4, 2016 Posted February 4, 2016 For future reference, never insult the child of a mother. 'What a little darling, I love how he's writing on my car with a rock. How creative.' That's how you do it. If you manage to salvage this then come back and tell us how you did it, you'll be writing history.
Author StormRider Posted February 4, 2016 Author Posted February 4, 2016 For future reference, never insult the child of a mother. 'What a little darling, I love how he's writing on my car with a rock. How creative.' That's how you do it. If you manage to salvage this then come back and tell us how you did it, you'll be writing history. Haha funny man. Yes yes those drawing skills are of university standard, am very impressed 1
bigbaby Posted February 4, 2016 Posted February 4, 2016 I think maybe you are just going through that awful "alone" period that comes after a break-up. After all, what's changed? If her kid drives you nuts, it doesn't sound like this relationship will work very well, does it? 1
basil67 Posted February 4, 2016 Posted February 4, 2016 Bigbaby makes a good point. If the kid drove you nuts before, why would you go back for more?
Author StormRider Posted February 4, 2016 Author Posted February 4, 2016 She's a person i adore. Someone i like having in my day and someone who over time have gotten quite close too Imagine a couple cuddling with her on his lap being generally enloped, then 20 minutes later toddler causes outrage, male loses temper, cos toddlers doings was 'outrageous', then within half hour male has gone driven away never to ever to speak to them again of absolute zero contact. Hugely radical?
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