Urgent: Does anyone know much about snapchat?

[Imajerk17]

You said in your opening post that you legally have to avoid contact with her. If it's not a restraining order, then what is it? How did you end up in jail?

 

Yes that is my question as well. I imagine that there had to be an awful lot that happened between (and/or maybe before) "I decided I had to see her" and "The cops came and took me away and threw me in the slammer". I am wondering what the OP did to get himself hauled away. It had to be something besides just showing up to talk to her (bad enough as is) if there was no prior restraining order. I mean, a gazillion of us have suffered our hearts broken. A lot of us had a breakup that hit us right on a childhood wound. And have done some really pathetic and dumb stuff after the fact. But most of us as hurting as we were still didn't cross that line and so we stayed jail-free.

 

That OP's dad committed adultery w his first love does kind of explain his writing all these threads on the topic, but it does not justify scary/dangerous behavior. I mean, what do you all think this poor girl is feeling right now?

 

Bottom line, your behavior was NOT normal and I truly hope for EVERYONE's sake that you were freaked out by it as well. I also hope you are discussing all this w your counselor.

Edited February 6, 2016 by Imajerk17

[basil67]

I read back through your first few posts. Did you mention that your parents committed adultery with their "first love" ex partners? I'm sure I read that & was surprised that no-one jumped on it. Also Aspergers? These things explain a lot.

 

My brother was a very emotional, obsessive person in his late teens, early 20's. I do understand. You can't force 'first love' onto unwilling persons just because you believe it to be of great value! Your feelings aren't important enough to be going to these extremes.

 

I agree with an earlier poster... Print out all of your threads here & give them to your doc. It's vitally important that he/she knows some of this information. Are you still having suicidal thoughts & actions?

 

I honestly believe that your problems are too serious to be managed on a forum. Keep posting. I hope we can help but PLEASE share the entire truth in therapy. You don't need to be suffering AND causing suffering like this!

 

Wow, I had no idea of the history. Would you mind telling me which thread this is on?

[SincereOnlineGuy]

Penis in vagina penetration for the first time...which was both of our first times.

 

 

 

O-kaaaaaaaaaaaay, then HOW can there be "another girl you lost your virginity to" ????

[loverage21]

O-kaaaaaaaaaaaay, then HOW can there be "another girl you lost your virginity to" ????

 

When I mean another girl, I mean she was another girl who I had a lot of feelings invested towards. But this particular girl is the one I lost my virginity to.